Are you able to turn women on with nothing but your thumbs?
If not, it’s time to work on your texting game.
Because once you get this down, it can literally make us addicted to wanting to hear from you… where we check our phone every few minutes, hoping you’ve written back.
And this applies to not only women you’ve already met in real life and are texting…
But also to hooking the attention of women you meet via Tinder, Bumble and other dating apps and sites.
The #1 key to great texts is being able to flirt in a charming way that leaves us wanting more.
Make sure you give us a glimpse of your personality so we can see ourselves actually being with you in the real world…
Whether that be for just one night, the rest of our lives… or anything in between.
Let’s take a look at some real life screenshots a student shared with me of a texting exchange between him and a woman he matched with online.
Read them all first and then I’ll give you my thoughts below.
One of the main reasons she responded so well is because he used flirting in a fun and playful way.
He made a game out of it, and wasn’t afraid to challenge her. (Notice how he said if she failed she’d have to work harder to get him out. He’s already assuming she wants to meet him, which conveys confidence — and because it’s done playfully, avoids coming off as arrogant.)
The other thing he did well was lead things forward the whole time. (Tip: We LOVE this!)
She even went out of her way at the end to point out what a great leader he is. This is a very strong sign of attraction on her part.
Now, don’t get hung up on the specifics of what he wrote in these texts.
I’m not saying talking about tea versus coffee is the key to making women want you.
Instead, pay attention to the structure of what’s going on here… and the underlying communication that’s happening.
The words themselves aren’t the most important part. It’s the flirtatious energy behind the words that is the real magic.
And judging by this woman’s responses, I’d say there’s about a 99% chance that she actually shows up for the date.
Plus, if he keeps this up in person, there’s a very good chance it leads to something more. (Oh and I’ve seen her picture, she’s very cute BTW.)
Whether that be face to face, or over text with the push of a few buttons.
And judging by the texts that I see from MOST men, this is a skill that everyone needs to learn.
That’s why I created the ultimate guide to flirting.
It explains in precise detail exactly what to do (and how to do it) when meeting and talking to women to create deep, gut-level attraction.
Best of all, unlike some other dating advice out there… there’s nothing complicated here and it’s SUPER FUN to put into practice!
Guys who have struggled with confidence issues and approach anxiety their whole life tell me how simple it is to talk and flirt with women once they understand these principles.