3 Best Flirting Questions To Ask A Girl (To Get Her To Want You)
Do you want to know how to flirt with a girl or girls and break through the most common complaint women have after they hang out with a guy?
I take it that's a yes!
The biggest complaint I get from women after a date is that the guy didn’t ask them a single question. Instead, he talked and talked and talked and talked.
The questions are what builds a foundation for getting to know one another.
Questions can also help you select the RIGHT woman for you. Without asking questions and caring about the answer you’re just a tap-dancing monkey aiming to please the woman you are sitting across from.
There are about a million and 1 videos on YouTube that talk about what questions to ask women.
BUT there are very few that tell you HOW to ask them and what to do with their answers that will lead to more attraction, increased flirtation, and hopefully a little making out.
3 best flirting questions to ask women that get them excited
The 3 questions are part of this amazing little Q&A game you can play with women that will have you asking questions the RIGHT way so that they can skyrocket your conversations to an instantly flirty level and establish you as a non-needy, non-pleasing man.
First, I have to tell you that I am the queen of watching cheesy TV.
Not cheesy reality because I’m a classy lady, but the queen of watching super cheesy dramas that are just oh so good.
The other night I was watching grey’s anatomy and this scene came on with a perfect example of questions to ask women and HOW to respond to build attraction and start flirting.
One of the main characters is at a medical conference and she runs into this guy she used to work with who is quite bold and reveals to her that he always used to have a crush on her.
She replies back that she always had a crush as well.
This means the attraction is already there. Both parties have pictured each other naked and doing fun stuff with them.
Invite her to a “get to know each other” lightning round.
Cut to the next scene and they walk by the closed hotel pool. No one else is there. The guy says to her…
“Okay, so we only have 36 more hours to get to know each other. So I’m going to do a lightning round. Don’t think just answer. You ready?”
This on its own is just super cute, super manly, and very quick and on the ball.
Why? Because with this statement he’s taking the lead, showing he wants to get to know this woman AND he knows how to do it in a fun and playful way.
So then she responds with “Okay. I’m ready” to indicate she’s in on the challenge. See how it’s already setting a tone of excitement and play?
How to flirt with a girl question #1: Ask her favorite snack food
Then he hits her with “What's your favorite snack food?”. This isn’t a mind-blowing question, but it’s kind of intimate and also kid-like.
She says “pretzels” very proudly.
To which he responds “wow. Failed your first question. Pretzels are only the favorite snack food of prisoners who haven’t had snacks in years and don’t remember what snacks are meant to taste like”.
He of course said this with a smile on his face to indicate that he’s joking. He also does not try to appease her with “Wow! Good choice”. He doesn't put her on a pedestal.
With this one response, he quickly and gently establishes his wanting by taking the risk to disagree. Genius.
She then responds with “I’m not one to fail tests, especially after the first question so give me another one”
How to flirt with a girl question #2: Let's talk movies!
He asks “favorite movie” and when she gives her response he follows up with “WHY”.
I loved when he said why because it showed that he didn’t want to exchange data with the woman. He wanted to see how she works. How she thinks and why she likes what she likes.
Another way to establish that you as a man need to see value in someone else in order to give more time and attention to them. Wondering WHY a woman does things and asking to elaborate helps you position yourself as a man with self-respect. It also adds depth to your character and helps with a deeper connection.
So she elaborated. Gave her feelings about why Amelie was her favorite film, which gave him more insight into her.
How to flirt with a girl question #3: The perfect day
Then his final question was “perfect day off?”
And she walked him through the dreamiest of days for HER. What she views as perfection and what makes her happy.
Do you see how just 3 questions he got to know so much about her? And he did it in a playful that also showed so much about him.
He didn’t ask what do you do for a living? Or where do you live? Do you like it in Arizona?
He asked questions that got to her core and he asked her to elaborate which gave him an even deeper look into who she is and ways to connect with her on a deeper level.
And By the way, deeper doesn’t mean that you're thinking of this woman for marriage and long term. Deeper just means he got under her skin so that she felt closer and more open to him.
Answer the same questions authentically
So then it’s his turn to answer the questions. And she goes through each one and he’s ready with a good answer.
And because he’s built up such good vibes between the two of them and gotten intimate with his questions and her answers he knows he can push to that next level even more.
Remember, he knows there is attraction there because she’s already stated she too had a crush and has left the conference and gone walking with him in a space where it’s just the two of them.
Both huge signs she’s attracted, curious and engaged.
When she gets to the final question he gives an amazing answer to “your perfect day” and he says I wake up and roll over to the beautiful heart surgeon in bed beside me and I do that thing to her that makes her lower back arch. Then he takes a pause.
Honestly, when I watched this I was like “I want someone to say this to me right now!!!”
After her pauses he kind of blushes slyly at her and she leans in and kisses him.
This is complete Literotica female fiction to a T and it works so well. All about the slow build tension to the boldness and completion. It’s freaking hot!
And this was all from 3 simple little questions executed in just the right way to slowly build attraction and escalate the interaction.
Now, these don’t have to be your questions that you ask. But if you can keep with the idea behind each of them you can and will get similar results with women.
Let me review the flow that will work and the HOW behind each question.
Step 1: Ask a question about a favorite secret behavior that is kid-like and then tease her about her response. Favorite hobby, pastime, toy, video game.
Step 2: Ask about a more broad FAVORITE. Music, tv show, movie, place to travel.
Step 3: Ask her to walk you through her idea of a perfect day. Perfect date. Perfect kiss.
And boom. The perfect flow of flirty questions that lead to more.
Now this 3 questions recipe or routine and you’ll be stunned at how the girls use this on will react to you.
But I must confess…
There’s one missing piece in the puzzle
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