How to get a girl “do this and she's yours”
Is it possible to learn how to get a girl who hardly knows you to think about you non-stop?
How can you make a girl you’re interested in think about all of the time?
What if you knew how to make her so obsessed with you that she just can’t get you off of her mind?
Well, it’s actually quite easy.
You see, in order to get a girl obsessed with you, you need four main ingredients.
Interest is the first step to know how to get a girl
You have to make sure the girl is fully interested in you. Because if she isn’t, there’s no way she’ll spend time thinking about you.
Step 1 will show you one of the easiest ways to get her fully interested in you.
Chemistry plays a role in how to get a girl
You have to make sure there’s sexual chemistry between you two. If not, even if you cross her mind at times, she will only think of you as a friend or acquaintance. And she definitely WILL NOT “obsess” over you.
Step 2 will show you the surefire way to create sexual chemistry.
Mystery is the third ingredient
If a girl has you all figured out, if she knows everything about you, there’s nothing to think about. That’s why you need to create that sense of mystery.
Step 3 will show you the right way to create mystery. Most men usually get this wrong.
And the last ingredient is scarcity
We desire and value things more when it’s scarce or limited.
Of course, this goes without saying that the more a girl values you, the more she’s likely to think about you.
Step 4 will help you position yourself as a scarce entity so you increase your value in her eyes and make her think about you more.
Now that you have the overview, my evil master plan, let's dive into the steps.
Using the Power of Presence
One of the simplest ways to get a girl fully interested in you is to use the power of presence.
One thing all women want, more than almost anything else is to feel that she is special.
It’s a feeling that we desperately crave.
That’s why when a man can make us feel special, we can’t help but become interested in him.
Unfortunately, most guys are unable to make girls feel this way because they try to make a girl feel special by simply telling her that she’s special to him.
That doesn’t work. Women are skeptical about such words. I mean, you could be saying that to every other woman you meet.
If you really want to make a girl feel special around you, you have to show her that she’s special.
And the way to show her that is by being fully present in an interaction, and giving her your undivided attention.
Listen to her instead of thinking about what to say next. Nod occasionally to show you are paying attention.
Ask questions about things she’s talking about. Most importantly, make eye contact. Look at her like she’s the only person in the room.
These little things make us feel like we’re important to you and that we are special to you.
Once you make us feel that way, you will get us interested.
Getting us fully interested in you is the first requirement for making us think about you non-stop. Now, let's get into the next step.
How to get your crush to like you? Flirt during conversations
The sure-fire way to create sexual chemistry which is the second ingredient that’s required to make a girl obsess over you is to flirt during conversations. So many guys mess this up.
Most guys who approach girls tend to talk like a friend would. These guys are nice and polite. It's predictable that they'll compliment us and ask us lots of “interview-style” questions.
They just maintain that nice and friendly vibe.
The problem is although this might get us to like them as a person, even get us a little bit interested in them…
It doesn’t get any of us to see them as a sexual option because there is no sexual vibe or chemistry.
And without sexual chemistry, there’s no way a girl will obsess over a man.
It’s just not going to happen. We don’t obsess over men who we don’t like in a sexual way.
That’s why you need to create sexual chemistry with that girl you like.
You create that chemistry by flirting during almost every conversation you have with her.
Tease her, touch her, give her a silly nickname, maintain eye contact, use some sexual innuendo, accuse her of trying to seduce you. There are too many ways to count that you could go about flirting.
Once you start flirting with her you will create sexual chemistry between you two. She'll start to see you as a sexual option and you will have taken a huge leap towards getting her obsessed with you.
Don’t ever miss this step while interacting with girls you like.
Onto step numero tres.
Use info gaps to successfully know how to get girls
If a girl has you all figured out and knows everything about you, there’s nothing to think about.
That’s why you need to create a sense of mystery.
If a woman finds you mysterious, it’s only natural she’ll spend time thinking about you to try and figure you out.
However, most guys misunderstand this concept.
They think being mysterious means never telling her anything about yourself, or avoiding all of her questions.
See, that doesn’t make you mysterious. That just makes you weird and shady.
The right way to create mystery is to use “info-gaps”.
When you’re talking to a girl don’t give her your full story. Give her some information, but not all of it. Create a gap of sorts.
An easy way to do this is to answer some of her questions directly. But with others, playfully hold back on revealing the answer.
For example, let’s say you’ve been answering a woman's questions directly for some time and then she asks you “So what are you passionate about?”
You could tell her that it’s baseball, painting, traveling, or any other passion you have. But that wouldn’t build mystery.
Instead, what if you created an info-gap and said something like this…
“Y’know I’m passionate about quite a few things and I'd love to tell you, but that’s more like a 3rd date conversation. By then I’d know if you can handle my answer”
In this case, you’re revealing that you’re passionate about some things, but you’re not telling her what exactly those things are.
If you do this with a playful grin, I guarantee it will make you appear mysterious and fascinating in her eyes.
You could even create info gaps when you’re telling stories.
Let’s say you’re telling her about the best vacation you have ever been on.
As you tell her the story you could sprinkle in some info gaps by adding cliffhanger-type sentences:
“Everything was already going great. But that last day took things to a whole new level of fun”
In this case, you’re hinting at the fact that something big happened on the last day, but you’re not revealing what exactly.
The girl is bound to ask “What happened?”
And then you could reply with “Nah, never mind. It’s kinda personal”. Said with a playful smirk on your face.
See how easy this is?
Implanting these seeds of mystery by using info gaps is a great way to let her mind start thinking about you.
Just remember two important tips while using this tactic
First, don’t overdo this. Create info gaps sparingly or it can get annoying.
Second, as you're creating info-gaps don’t use those cheesy lines like “I’d tell you, but then I’d have to kill you”.
Most girls have heard that stuff a million times so it doesn’t work anymore.
Next up is the final step.
Limit Your Interactions
This is where you add that final ingredient into the mix which is scarcity.
As I mentioned, scarcity or limited availability, makes people value you more.
And naturally, the more a woman values you, the more she’s likely to think about you.
Not only that…
When you are less available you’re actually giving her the time she needs to think about you, wonder what you’re up to, who you’re with, and when she will see you, again.
Without this space in time, she can’t really think about you.
That’s why you should limit the interactions you have with her and make yourself less available or scarce.
Don’t reply to her texts all of the time.
Call her sometimes instead of calling too often.
Don’t agree to see her every time she wants to see you.
Now, obviously, you don’t have to do these things just for the sake of being scarce.
Instead, you actually want to get busy in your own life.
Hang out with your friends and family, indulge in your passions and hobbies, work on stuff you need to work on. Prioritize your life over the girl.
You will naturally find yourself limiting the interactions you have with her.
You don’t have to consciously worry about how often you’re texting her, calling her, or seeing her.
As you limit your interactions you’ll see that the girl will become obsessed with you. Girls will think about you all of the time.
You'll know to get a girl and make her crave being around you, even start to call you and text you more often. Basically, at this point, she’ll be hopelessly hooked on you.
And that’s how you accomplish the mission.
That’s how you get a girl to think about you obsessively.
You get her fully interested in step 1.
Build sexual chemistry with step 2.
Create a sense of mystery with step 3.
And finally, add scarcity into the mix and seal the deal with step number 4.
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