I want to show you how to get her wet in bed using just your words. Touching, and kissing, stimulation, penetration, all play vital roles in the bedroom but you can really drive a woman wild using the power of your words. Only a handful of men know how to do this, and the ones who do, satisfy women at a level most can't.
So it's time for you to join that elite group of sexual rock stars and add this new skill to your arsenal so you can give your sexual partners the most exciting and arousing experience they've ever had.
There are so many ways to talk dirty in the bedroom. But I want to focus on the simplest and most reliable one today which is showing your desire and your appreciation. Research shows that feeling desired is the number one female turn-on of all time.
It is the one thing that gets women excited the most in a sexual situation. Being wanted. And I've interviewed thousands of women who say exactly the same thing. Unfortunately, most men don't know this and they don't vocalize their sexual desire in the bedroom. They just go about their business in a rather silent manner maybe a little moaning or grunting which is fine but hardly anything is said.
Now, this is understandable because saying dirty things can feel really embarrassing. I get it. I felt it. Most of us are shamed for expressing our sexuality most of our lives and it's natural to develop a sense of shyness or discomfort when discussing sexual topics or talking dirty.
But if you want to take your sexual experience chances to that next level and keep your partner coming back for more, you need to get over that embarrassment and learn to talk dirty. Not even dirty, just learn to talk. So I'm going to give you a super easy exercise at the end that is going to help you do that. Get over that hump. But for now, let me show you eight powerful phrases you can copy right away and use in the bedroom to get her very excited to be with you.
So these eight phrases always work with women. So pay attention to them.
#1) I Love Your …
And then you fill in the blank. This could be:
- I love your body.
- I love the way you smell.
- I love your smell.
- I love your soft skin.
This is a perfect opportunity to just like go crazy and use your imagination. But obviously, you know, don't repeat the same phrase over and over again. Every now and then is going to do the trick. Saying things like I love your body, I love your breasts, I love your ass, and so on will make you and her both feel totally turned on and because most women are quite insecure about their bodies, this type of phrase will give her like that boost of confidence which will allow her to completely open up to you in the bedroom.
#2) You're So Wet
So male arousal is more evident than female arousal. Largely to visible erections. However, during sex, many women aren't aware of how wet and turned on they actually are. And interestingly enough, telling a woman she is wet is a great way to get her even more turned on.
#3) You Turn Me On So Much
This is by far one of the hottest things you can say to a girl. This phrase works like magic because it not only makes a woman feel appreciated and desired but it makes her feel irresistible. And we love and crave to feel that way especially when we're in the bedroom. So these six words let her know that in that moment, she has the power
to turn you on and make her feel the way you want to and that is ridiculously hot.
Easy, just one word spoken in the right way can drive a woman wild. Like men, we women also want to feel validated in bed. We want to hear exciting and positive feedback when doing things in bed. Especially when we're doing some jobs that aren't… You know, so much fun. We want to know like you that the stimulation we are giving is effective and that you're enjoying yourself.
So if she's doing something you like, say yes. Say you like it. Say you want her to keep going. Trust me, she will love it. And she'll keep going and do a better job.
#5) You Look So Sexy
- You look so sexy when you go down on me.
- You look so sexy when you bend over like that
- You look so sexy when you wear that black lingerie.
It is a direct and powerful way to show that you find her sexy. The word sexy holds a lot of power in a sexual situation. And we love hearing it. It turns us on big time.
Another slight variation of this phrase could be: You sound so sexy when you moan. And that's also a great phrase to use to increase her arousal and your own. So you should definitely give it a try.
#6) I Want To See You Come
Hearing that your partner wants to give and see you receive pleasure is a great source of excitement for any woman. So saying this phrase while doing all the necessary actions to give her an orgasm will maximize her chances of reaching climax.
By the way, if you want to know how to make a woman orgasm, you should watch the video I did on the six things that women crave in bed but don't tell you. That video is going to give you a clear idea of what actions will increase her chances of getting a powerful toe-curling orgasm that leaves her weak in the knees. You can check it out here.
#7) I Want You Right Now
So you can use this phrase before sex to make it clear to your partner that you desire them then and there. And by telling her that you want her at that moment, you can be sure she is going to be excited to be with you. It's a really powerful phrase that triggers an instant turn-on.
#8) Take It Off
Giving directions to a woman during sex and foreplay is a surefire way to get her excited and the reason this particular phrase is so good is that there is an unexplainable pleasure in taking your clothes off according to your partner's orders. Or better yet, having your clothes taken off for you like in the movies. Oh my God, it's amazing.
The pleasure of being undressed along with the knowledge that your partner desires your naked body if you feel bare skin is guaranteed to make her weak in the knees. So that concludes our list of phrases you can start using right away. Super easy, super PG, and super fun.
These eight phrases are guaranteed to turn your woman on and get her like so aroused in the bedroom. Plus they also serve as examples of the overarching principle at play here. The principle is that women get turned on by feeling desired. Showing your appreciation and your desire for her is going to make her go crazy.
So you have these eight examples that you can use right away but don't limit yourself to these. Like, don't get stuck in these. Because I said so, you understand the principle now. So make up your own phrases and sentences based on what I've shared here and don't overthink it now.
If you've been one of the silent types who has never talked dirty before, this isn't really dirty but who's ever talked before and felt embarrassed to try it, don't worry. So I have an exercise that's going to help you get over your discomfort. It's actually super simple and basic. All you have to do is conduct solo practice sessions in the comfort of your own home.
Get yourself in the mood by picturing a sexual encounter and you can use porn for this. But I say stick to your imagination if you can. And while you're getting turned on, practice saying a couple of these phrases out loud. Don't have acid. You're by yourself. You can't be comfortable with yourself, how are you being comfortable with her? Say it as you mean it.
So in terms of delivery, do not rush and speak in a slow voice. Do this a couple of times over the next couple of weeks and get those reps in. And I am sure that your shyness around this is going to start to fade away. It'll become easier. You'll be more comfortable with words and phrases like these coming out of your mouth.
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