I want to be very clear on something. Just because a girl agrees to go back to your place DOES NOT mean she for sure wants to have sex. BUT, if you have this 1 thing, it will increase your chances of getting her into bed.
And what is that one thing? SEXUAL CONFIDENCE!!!!
I have a great, free, audio for you below that explains how to get sexual confidence. But first….
I'm going to share a story with you, to paint a picture of what sexual confidence looks like to a woman:
When I was younger, I was a HUGE prude.
The reason I was a prude was because I had tons of guy friends who would take advantage of women by lying to them to get them into bed. Now even though these guys never treated me this way, in fact they treated me like a queen, it made me put up a huge barrier towards all men. Fearing that they would do the same thing to me, if I let them.
I never wanted to be taken advantage of or seen as a slut or a whore. So I became the kissing bandit and made a rule to only kiss men until they proved they really liked me and would never use me.
I basically made men jump through hoops to get any more from me.
I was out with my girlfriends one night, in a little town called Byron Bay. The town was filled with tons of other backpackers from all over the world. We got to this one bar that we loved and planted ourselves in our usual spot when I suddenly spotted this cute blonde guy across the bar. Now this guy was not overly attractive because of his looks. In fact, this guy was 5 foot 5, super skinny and not my type at all.
Has attractive because of his attitude. I found him attractive because of the way that he was acting. I could tell right away he was the leader of his group and he was making sure his whole group was having a great time. He didn't focus on girls, in fact he didn't seem concerned with anyone other than his friends. He was focused on having fun and getting the most out of his evening.
I immediately thought “I want him”.
So I grabbed my girlfriend and made her come with me, so that we could stand near the group and hopefully catch his attention.
5 minutes later. Nothing. I was pissed and felt totally unattractive.
Then suddenly he walked by us, said something, which I can't even remember, then went back to enjoying his friends.
I instantly loved him and was extremely turned on. Towards the end of the night, as we were ready to leave, he approached me and we started talking. He offered to walk me back to my hostel, which he happened to be staying at as well and I of course said yes.
We got back to my place, I invited him in and we instantly started kissing and moved our way over to my bed. Then as soon as he tried to go further then kissing I immediately tensed up and got scared.
Now there are 3 things a guy can do in a situation like this. 1 of which is the right thing to do. The right things that displays true Sexual Confidence.
1. He can also get anxious and react emotionally. This looks like a man getting discouraged that “it's” not happening, stopping what he is doing and making an excuse to leave.
2. He can pretend to not notice my body language and push to keep going further and it's up to me to stop him which I'll eventually do and then it's totally awkward.
Or he can do, what this guy did.
He stopped, looked at me and said if you are uncomfortable with anything we're doing I want you to slap my hand and we'll stop immediately. He literally took my hand and slapped his own, Just hearing those words immediately calmed me down and got me to open up liked I've never done before 😉
That was my first ever one night stand.
As soon as he said this my mind immediately was put at ease.
Marni the Prude was no more!
I want you to discover how to get sexual confidence. The sexual confidence that this guy had!
So I have two FREE resources for you below:
1. Audio interview I did with Carlos Xuma on How To Get Sexual Confidence (27 minutes)
– Why women desire men who have sexual confidence
– How to get sexual confidence
– The BIGGEST sexual mistake men are making with women
– How easily to gain sexual experience
– Why you do NOT need to have a ton of success with women to be sexually confident
– How to make women think about you sexually even when your not there
– How to escalate sexually with women
2. A Report that Carlos has made where he reveals: How to take a woman you've just met to a level of WHITE HOT SEXUAL DESIRE in a matter of minutes… Click Here to Find Out More
He also explains the #1 Attraction Killer – Click Here & Find Out Now
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