99.9% of All Women Want Men Who Do This: How To Emotionally Connect & Build Trust With Women
In this video I’m going to tell you the #1 thing 99.9% of all women wish men would do but most men don’t do.
AND 3 super easy and practical things you can do that’ll instantly make you more present and attractive when talking to any woman.
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One of the most important things any guy should learn regarding attracting quality women is something rarely ever taught or spoken about…
Which is a genuine mystery since it’s something all women crave instinctively.
Sure, any guy can learn to be confident, hold a conversation well, make her laugh, and show that he’s a quality guy in a number of different ways…
But there’s one thing that men who are consistently successful with women do differently than the others.
These are guys who actually get the second date – even if they think they did something wrong…
They’re the ones who have women looking at them with a twinkle in their eyes and a smile with lips quivering in excitement and anticipation…
They’re the ones who can have a woman checking her phone every 7 seconds to see if got a message from him…
They’re the ones who can make a woman’s heart sing with happiness and make them moan with ecstasy because he was able to create something that no other guy could give her…
What is it exactly?
What is this One Thing That 99.9% of ALL Women Want, desire and crave…..
It’s to be with a man who knows how to make us feel special.
I’ll repeat that because it’s really important and I don’t want you jumping on this statement until you let me fully explain it.
Women want to be with a man that knows how to make us feel special
When you’re able to make us feel special, you bring that X-factor that makes you stand out from anyone else.
Unfortunately for women, there aren’t a lot of guys who can make us feel special without coming off as needy, feminine, or like they’re faking it entirely…
So, what’s the best way to do that?
Again without putting us on a pedestal and coming across as the kind of men us women are turned off by?
It’s to be fully present and in the moment when you’re talking to us.
When a grounded, quality man gives us the gift of his undivided attention…
Where it feels like he’s genuinely interested in finding out what makes us unique, that’s incredibly sexy.
So, I want to give you 3 practical things you can do that’ll instantly make you more present and attractive when talking to any woman.
#1 Active listening
Most guys don’t really listen when a woman is talking.
Sure, it may seem like they’re listening… but in reality they’re just waiting for their turn to talk.
I’ve noticed this is really common with guys who study dating advice.
They’re so focused on saying the exact right thing to try and impress us…
That their attention is inside their own heads, which prevents them from being fully present.
One way this might show up is asking a question only because he wants to give his own answer.
For example, he might ask about the favorite place we’ve ever traveled to.
Once we answer, he’ll immediately talk about HIS favorite place and not relate it to anything we just said.
The end result is that it feels like he’s talking AT us rather than talking WITH us.
And no woman likes that and will cause us to immediately shut down and shut off. A.K.A no attraction for you.
Here’s a couple of little tricks on how to make sure you actively listen to women.
- Nod your head when she’s talking
- Use statements like “I see” or “that’s interesting” or “tell me more”
- If you really want to show a woman you’ve listened and heard her you can repeat back what she just said “So you were a dancer when you were younger.”
- After you’ve repeated what she said, you comment on it. “So you were a dancer when you were younger. That’s awesome. ”
- This is the icing on the cake for active listening. You can follow up your listening with your own personal share and then a compliment to make her feel special.
“I’m the worst dancer in the whole world. It definitely takes a lot of commitment and drive to stick with dancing”.
And THAT is active listening with an attractive punch.
Alright onto #2
#2 Ask deeper questions
Following on from above, you want to ask questions that show you’ve been listening to us.
And that not only have you been listening… you’re also genuinely interested and curious to hear more about our thoughts, feelings, and experiences.
So let’s stick with that example of asking about our favorite place we’ve traveled to.
You don’t want to immediately talk about your favorite place, since it feels like you don’t care about ours.
And you also don’t want to ask an unrelated question, such as “Okay cool, so what’s your favorite movie?”
Instead, ask a follow up question that encourages us to dig deeper. For example, let’s say we said our favorite place was Egypt.
You could ask why Egypt stands out in our mind above everywhere else.
Or what our one most cherished memory is from our time there.
Or what the most surprising thing was about Egypt that we didn’t expect.
There are an infinite amount of questions you could ask.
But the key is really paying attention to what we say and then digging deeper into that.
Here’s a little trick. Never start your questions with DO YOU because most often the response you get will be short and simple. Yes or No.
If you use how, what, when and why at the start of your question, it will help her give you a more detail response.
So start working your question muscle with those around you so that you can get better at asking open ended questions that get bigger and better responses.
Remember the more she’s talking, the better position you are in. 75/25. At least in the beginning.
#3 Eye contact
This one might sound obvious, but it’s so important that I need to mention it.
A lot of guys only make sporadic eye contact during a conversation, especially when we’re the ones talking.
They might be looking around the room, or glancing at their phone, or even checking out another woman.
WHICH is an okay tactic if you do it once or twice throughout the date. But most guys do it way more than that.
Breaking eye contact when we’re talking makes it feel like you’re not present with us.
That you have something else on your mind other than listening to what we have to say.
So it chips away at any connection we might share and doesn’t make us feel special at all.
Now, I’m not saying you should stare into our eyes and never look away (cos that might make you seem like a psycho)…
But you want to break eye contact at the right moments.
That could be during a silence, or while we’re just talking about nothing, or you’re looking away to try and capture a thought etc.
But when we’re talking to you, especially if we’re sharing something important, the more eye contact the better.
Makes sense, right?
None of these 3 things are difficult to do. However many guys completely neglect them.
Either because they forget, they don’t realize their importance OR they’re too nervous to remember.
And this is totally normal by the way. So many men don’t do these 3 practical things.
If these 3 things are difficult for you to do or you’re just not sure how to pull them off right, then I can help.
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