How to make her obsessed with you using the little known tricks
Have you ever wished you were some hotshot celebrity who has tons of girls chasing after you fighting for your attention, wanting to be with you, and even sleep with you? I mean, who doesn't have that dream? Well, I can't help you with a celebrity part, but I can show you six easy ways how to make her obsessed with you.
Here's tip #1:
Forget about impressions
When most guys meet a girl, they like the number one goal in their head is I need to be impressive. I have to impress this girl with everything they say or do. They're trying to get rapport. They're trying to get the girl to like them. If the girl shows even a little bit of interest, they try even harder so that she doesn't lose interest. And this is such a huge mistake. In fact, it's probably the biggest mistake you can make with women.
When we notice that a guy is actively trying to be impressive. We know immediately that he craves our approval or in other words, he's needy.
Neediness is the number one killer of attraction, there's nothing that turns us, women, off more than seeing a needy guy.
Here's what you do instead. Forget about making impressions, good or bad. Erase the word “impress” from your mind. Like literally just get rid of it. In fact, today, I want you to adopt a new belief. It's a belief shared only by the top 1% of high-quality men in this world. If I spend enough time with a girl she's bound to like me, because I'm awesome.
This is how the guys who date the most amazing, beautiful high-quality men think they own it for themselves. They think that it's only a matter of time until they are attracted to them. So they never worry about making an impression on them. They simply interact with the girl, have fun express themselves. There's no filter and no signs of doubt and neediness.
And guess what? The girl does begin to get attracted. Even if she wasn't at first, a guy who isn't worried about making impressions is inevitably attractive to us. The more we interact with this guy, the more we get attracted and even obsessed with him. Cause he's so sure of himself.
The next tip is…
Express a range of emotions
When interacting with women, most guys fall into two categories. There's the nice guy. Who's always positive and complementary and polite and on the safe side of the conversation. Then there's the want to be a bad boy or a tough guy who was always being edgy and teasing and challenging and so on. Both are equally bad.
And here's why you see women crave a range of emotions.
That's what hooks us in and keeps us interested in arouses us.
If you're nice and positive and complimentary all the time, it becomes predictable and boring.
Similarly, if you're constantly edgy and provocative always teasing and challenging us, that's predictable and also boring. You need to have a range. It's probably something you already do. I mean, think about how you interact with your guy, friends or female friends or family members, or just people that you're not attracted to. Are you always positive or are you always negative and busting their balls? No. Right. When you talk to them, you say some nice things, encourage them, compliment them, but you also tease and challenge and say provocative things and establish boundaries when need be. You don't think about it. You simply need to let yourself do the same around women
Be a really good kisser
All womren want a good kisser. It's something we like literally fantasize about. And if you're a guy who can blow our minds with your amazing kissing powers, it's almost impossible for us not to be obsessed with you.
Some quick basics…
Make sure you do not have bad breath. Secondly, make sure you have nice soft kissable lips. Finally don't rush; a good kisser takes it slow.
Be a good lover
So first of all, understand that size is no barrier. It's all about technique and connections. So many guys forget the connection part. And it's so important. What you do matters 100 times more than what you have. In fact, you could actually be packing a tree trunk in your slacks, but still, be a very disappointing lover.
Secondly, just like kissing, even in this department, do not rush. You get too intense, too fast. It kills sexual tension. And without the buildup, it's not fun for us women.
Don't take inspiration from adult movies and videos. They aren't accurate at all. And in fact, if you try to copy some things you see in porn and you can actually injure yourself or her.
Finally, you want to be generous. No girl likes a selfish lover yet. That's what most guys tend to be. You need to be different from the crowd. Make sure you cater to her needs first. Make sure you spend a good chunk of time pleasuring her body first.
Spend time apart
If you're always available, always spending time with her, always responding to her texts super fast. It can get really boring for the girl and there's no rush in it for her. It's going to kill the excitement in your relationship or potential relationship. And it won't help you learn how to make her obsessed with you.
Plus it'll also show her that you have nothing else going on in your life. It'll tell her that your life revolves around her. Trust me, none of us girls like a man who's constantly available. It's always a good idea to have other things going on in your life, keeping you engaged and it's perfectly okay to cancel plans sometimes if you need to or respond to her texts in a few hours.
Make her laugh
I always say that if you can make a girl laugh, you can make her do a hell of a lot more. And that's because there's hardly anything more seductive to a woman than a guy who can make her laugh. The value and power of this ability is incomparable.
If you want both attention and attraction from women and you want to get it as easily as possible, the biggest advantage you can have, believe it or not, is a sharp sense of humor.
Would you want the power to make her laugh and take her home?
If your answer is yes, then I recommend you click the link here and have a look at the banter guide.
The bander guide is a one-of-a-kind program and it was created by my friend and the world's number one expert on attracting women using humor, Kristen Carney.
If you follow what she reveals in this guide, you will be able to hook any woman's attention in any environment, including texts, make her laugh, giggle, and smile without any struggle and build attraction out of thin air.
Till next time,
Marni “How to make her obsessed with you” WingGirl