If you want to make a woman feel excited about being with you, you have to take her on a rollercoaster of emotions. Just being “nice” and romantic all the time gets really old… really fast. Here are my tips for how to keep a woman emotionally engaged, and have her craving more of you.
Want to know the secret to being the man that women become addicted to? It’s not about being the best looking guy… Or having the money to buy us whatever we want… And it’s not even about being amazing in bed (although that certainly helps!) No, if you want to make women addicted to you, it comes down to one thing:
Knowing how to make us feel the complete range of emotions we’re capable of feeling.
That includes positive AND negative emotions, as counterintuitive as that may sound. And this is where a lot of guys go wrong. They only focus on trying to make us feel good… and steer clear of anything that might lead to negative emotions. You might get away with that over the course of an hour or so when we first meet… But beyond that, it starts to get boring. Think of a roller coaster ride, for example. If you spent the whole ride only on the ascent, and it finished right there, it’d be a huge disappointment. You need to have those fast descents, twists and turns and flipping upside down to give you the full emotional experience. Without that, then it’s not nearly as thrilling.
And relationships are the same way. If we always know what to expect, and there’s never any drama or tension, we’ll usually feel something is lacking. This is one of the major reasons why bad boys are so tempting for most women. Bad boys aren’t always treading on eggshells, afraid of saying or doing something that’ll upset us… And it means we get to be angry at them sometimes. They also get attention from other women, and we’ll definitely feel jealous at times. We also get to feel excited, sad, horny, afraid, surprised, anticipation and a range of other feelings when dating a bad boy. This is the kind of emotional roller coaster ride that causes us to feel addicted to a guy.
Whereas the typical nice guy would prefer things to be safe and happy all the time i.e. a roller coaster without any of the exciting parts.
Now, if you’re thinking that this sounds crazy… and you’d rather have a relationship that’s always on an even keel… There is a small percentage of women who’d like the same thing. But the overwhelming majority will simply be bored to tears before long. And if you don’t help us feel all of these emotions, we’ll usually create ways to do it ourselves. That’s why sometimes your girlfriend will seem upset or angry, and you have no idea what caused it. Sometimes we’ll create drama out of nothing just because we want to FEEL something different.
This is just human nature for most women.
So rather than fighting against it, learn how to use it to your advantage. Because when you do, YOU’LL become one of the rare men that women feel addicted to. And I don’t use the term ‘addicted’ lightly. Studies show that we can become addicted to the different emotions we feel, the same we can be addicted to drugs, alcohol or food. The chemical reaction in our body is just the same… Meaning if you know how to give us the hit of emotions we crave, we’ll always turn to you for our next fix.
So what are some positive ways you can take us on an emotional rollercoaster ride? Let’s take a look at a few things you can do:
- Tease her
- Share personal stories that have different emotional experiences
- Surprise her with something unexpected
- Playfully tell her why you could never date her
- Look at other women from time to time
- Tell her what makes her stand out from other women
- Pick her up and carry her to the bedroom (when the time is right)
- Disagree with her about something
- Don’t back down if she challenges you on something
- Mix up your response times when texting her
- Take her out on a date but don’t tell her where you’re going
- Discuss each other’s fears, desires and dreams
- Give her your full attention like she’s the only woman in the world
Those are just a few ideas to get you started.
And this is something that works whether you’re just meeting and getting to know a woman… Or you’ve been in a relationship for 20 years. Get in the habit of providing this emotional rollercoaster experience from now on and you’ll be amazed at the difference it makes. Of course, this subject is only ONE of the things that women want, but will rarely tell you.
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Some women may not be happy that I’m revealing all our secrets for you right here… But I firmly believe that you having access to this insider information will also benefit the women you meet as well. That’s why I’m holding nothing back and giving you the no-holds-barred truth on what women want, once and for all.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,