Hope you had a great Halloween weekend!!
I wish I could tell you countless tales of my awesome weekend but sadly I caught a gross bug on Friday that kept me in bed all weekend 🙁
BUT I would still love to hear about your weekend or even see pics.
I wanted to quickly share something with you that is SUPER important.
It's about how to talk to women so that they'll want to continue talking to you.
Not in a “he's my bestie” way but in a “wow. There is something interesting about him” way.
I've talked about this a LOT in the past but I recently got an email from a man, who was halfway through my program How To Become A Man Women Want.
He said that after reading my program, he has now learned why, in the past, all of his communication with women failed.
It was because he was failing to speak to their emotions.
I wanted to share what he wrote to me because the way he phrased it was so perfect.
I also asked him to provide me with an example so that I could see that he really got it.
Both are pasted below 🙂
After reading this I would love to hear your thoughts on what he said AND I'd also love for you to send me an example to make sure you get it.
Email From H:
I've come to realize that women completely misunderstand the male active of bonding overshared interests.
Women do not bond with men over shared interests.
Except as gay friends!
If I want a woman to be interested in me, I need to speak her language.
This means less discussion about things and a total focus on discussing her interests and experiences with a concentration on how they make her feel. Any stories need to be focused on motivations and emotions.
Here is an example of how I'm speaking differently that is having an impact on how women see me and relate to me.
I’ve completely changed how I interact with women.
I’ve recently started taking dance classes. I’ve noticed the other men in the class talking to the women about their jobs, the dance steps, the music. I’ve started talking to the women about how THEIR jobs make them feel, how much more intimate the dance feels as we get more skilled, how the music brings everyone to a happy more carefree place. Everything I say is true, but I need to think about how everything relates to emotion.
That's a the key and it's making a difference.
I honestly couldn't have expressed it better.
Women need to FEEL you and they can't feel you if you are not emitting any type of emotion by simply stating lines. Those lines need to be backed up by substance. Substance we can feel.
That's the difference between some guy that we have a 20 minute conversation with and never think of again….
And the guy that we can't stop thinking about even though we only talked to him for no more than a minute.
From now on… I want you to be guy #2.