Best Online Dating Hack – “Stopwatch Method” For Better Conversation
If you’re single, chances are you’re mainly talking to women online these days and maybe you're still trying to figure out how to talk to women online.
And one of the advantages to that is you can take your time to come up with the perfect response to any messages you get…
However, that can also work against you in the long run.
Let me explain.
When you’re talking to a woman in the real world, like out on a date…
You don’t have the luxury of taking minutes — or hours — to think of what to say.
And thanks to apps like Tinder, there’s a whole generation of men who aren’t used to having attractive conversations in REAL-TIME.
It’s one reason many women will say they were attracted to a man while texting but when they met him in person they didn’t feel that same spark.
So I’m going to show you how to fix this right from the comfort of your own home.
I call it the Stopwatch Method and it’s based on a technique that a male friend used to become great with women.
“The Stopwatch Method” for how to talk to women online
Back in the early days of online dating, he messaged a lot of women.
And these online dating sites had an instant messaging function so you could type to each other in real-time.
So what my friend did was go from talking to one woman at a time to two to four to six.
And so on until he was having real-time conversations with over a dozen women at a time.
It meant he couldn’t stop and think about the perfect message to write. He just had to type the first thing that came into his head so he could move on to the next one.
By doing this he became super fast at thinking of something witty or attractive to say.
This also transferred over to talking to women face to face in the real world.
Now, even though the most common apps today like Tinder and Bumble don’t really have this feature where it’s like you’re talking in real-time…
You can still apply the same technique by using the Stopwatch Method.
Here’s how it works:
Give yourself a set period of time to respond to any message you get. Something like 30 seconds is a good place to start.
Set a stopwatch or the timer on your phone to go off at 30 seconds. At that point, you have to send the best thing you can think of, no matter what.
Keep this up for a week. Then the next week, reduce that down to 20 seconds.
The week after it’s 15, then 10, then 5.
And if you think 5 seconds isn’t much time to come up with a response, this is an eternity in the real world.
Imagine you’re on a date with a woman who asks you a question. Now count out loud to 5 and think of how awkward it would be sitting there in silence, racking your brain for an answer.
See that’s a long freaking time
So once you get your messages down to 5 seconds, take it even further.
How to come off as sharp and witty
You want to get to the stage where you can come up with an attractive response on the fly without even thinking about it.
This is how you come off as sharp and witty… which is something we LOVE in a man.
And if you don’t have a process yet for how to come up with responses to women that are sharp and witty…
Then you absolutely need to go and check out my banter guide.
It’s hands down the easiest way to create massive attraction… no matter what you look like, your age, or how much money you have.
Bantering is the foundation of flirting and learning how to talk to women online
It shows confidence, social intelligence, and it creates a fun dynamic that women are irresistibly drawn to.
Without banter, flirting using tension loops like the example I just shared is extra difficult or pretty much impossible.
Banter sets the groundwork with women and gets their serotonin juices flowing.
It helps make a woman more comfortable with you so that they are more open and willing to transition to more.
Bantering is a skill not everyone is fortunate enough to have.
But, it is a skill that everyone needs. And, luckily, it’s one you can learn.
That’s why I created the ultimate guide on how to banter with women.
Because knowing just this one skill can make a dramatic difference to how women feel about you.
So if you’re ready to start having more exciting and attractive conversations with women…
Then you need to check out this 5-minute video I’ve made for you.
It shows you how throwing a little banter into your conversation can totally transform your interactions with women and give you that edge you’ve always wanted.
It’s a quick, 5 minute that explains how to hold conversations that naturally build attraction through playful banter and how an attraction-building conversation should unfold.
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When you go to this page you can also get a ton of banter examples you can use as templates for your own future banter sessions with quality, beautiful women
Guys are already writing to me every day with crazy success stories since they started using it.
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