The most common questions I receive from men all over the world are about How To Talk To Women. This made me think about why this question is so common! Why are men so confused on how to talk to women? I came to realize that it was because of the way that men talk to one another, and the way women talk is totally different.
When women talk, they look for connectors, emotional connectors. So men that understand this about women, have an upper hand over other males.
Now, what I am going to do, with the help of my friend Bill, from PUA Forums, is teach you a few tools to use so that you can connect to women in conversation and will never again have to ask me how to talk to women.
Bill discusses what he uses to remember to connect with women when talking with them. He remembers to Listen, Confirm and Affirm ,which I thought was genius.
As a woman, I can say these actions are definitely appreciated and rewarded at any stage, whether it is attracting, dating, relationships, or marriage. Connecting to women does not stop once you get her number.
Here is a brief summary of Listen ,Confirm and Affirm
(I explain this formula in complete details in section 3 of How To Become A Man Women Want as well as the first part of LCA called OSA. Learn more here)
Learn – Learn something about a woman by asking a question or by having her tell you something about herself
Confirm – Confirm you have heard her by talking about the topic at hand for example giving your own take on the topic either by sharing a story or expanding on hers
Affirm – Affirm that because of this “thing” she has told you makes you like her more
Listen to the full audio (16 minutes) that gives a much longer description with exact examples on how to talk to women and how to connect to them through conversation.
To hear more about LCA and how to apply it to your conversations with women, check out How To Become A Man Women Want. Section 3 is ALL about how to talk to women and keep the conversation flowing so that she likes you.