In this article, I'm so excited to teach you about how to tease women to get them instantly attracted!
Since I was in my early twenties, I've been teasing women and of course, in a PLAYFUL way.
I'm going to tell you how to tease women (with playful energy) so that you don't come across as rude.
With that said, I think it's time that we discuss some very important ground rules:
Ground Rule When You Tease Women – Be Comfortable
There are a lot of busy places such as nightclubs, bars, even raves. And it's loud as hell.
Believe me, I've been to MANY. And these type of environments are designed to intimidate you.
This is why I am focusing largely on this first, it's because you must demonstrate comfort.
That means you have to get warmed up.So I want you start talking to five people before you get to in an interaction with the woman you want to talk to.
Often, I've seen guys start talking to the hottest woman and they go in to dip shit mode.
What's dip shit mode? You act too damn excited, like the fact that you are talking to her is the best thing that ever happened.
Cut that out of your game man. I'm telling you from experience and many approaches I've done.
It doesn't work. You are trying too hard when you do that.
Ground Rule When You Tease Women – Be Present
Don't ever start thinking unrealistic thoughts. It's hindering your progress.
Instead I want you to stop thinking altogether. Get in to the flow state.
If you ever think these thoughts:
- “What if she doesn't like me?”
- “What if I offend her?”
- “What if she rejects me?”
Then here's what happens, you freeze and go in to dip shit mode.
Ground Rule When You Tease Women – Flirtatious Eye's
I want you to master flirting with your eyes. How else can you charm women?
You can't. In fact, if you think that I've never been rejected, you thought wrong.
Part of the reason that happened is I lacked good eye contact.
So I decided to work on my eye contact. And it showed because women started responding to me positively.
Look in the mirror and say, “I'm such a handsome stud any woman would be lucky to have.”
You are a stud so show it, be that man that all women say, “damn he has good eye contact.”
Ground Rule When You Tease Women – Be Polarizing
Can you actually do this? I have a serious question for you, are you willing to be polarizing?
In this day and age with men losing sight of their masculinity because society shames masculinity, this may be the most important tip I can give you when it comes to teasing.
Why? I know that this is a sticky subject so let me simplify this for you, when you are polarizing, you are an Alpha Male.
In fact, you can literally get anyone's attention and keep it when you are polarizing.
That means I want you to tease everyone, not just girls. Especially if you're nervous, start out with teasing your friends.
And I want to be clear, I absolutely do not recommend negging the way it was taught by mystery method.
Why? Because you can easily come across as an asshole like you're insulting her.
The way I suggest you neg is to simply have a witty tone of voice but with a subtle hint of sarcasm.
So my dude, in order for you to not come across as you are insulting her, simply be self entertained when you tease.
That means to say, when you know how to tease her the right way, you are an Alpha Male.
Alpha Male attention is the hottest hits of validation any women wants to have. So you are going to see some VERY over-the-top teases. With that said, let us proceed to the final ground rule.
Ground Rule When You Tease Women – Be Self Entertained
This rule is about your energy. I want you to have playful energy to the way you deliver the teases.
This is basically you becoming self entertained. Meaning, your entertainment matters more than hers.
That doesn't mean you're better than her. Don't misinterpret what I'm saying.
You simply have a carefree heart and you are giving her your good looks and playful energy.
You'll notice that I'm giving you cocky lines and teases.
However, it's important that you deliver these lines with varying good emotions and you have a wide range of voice tonalities.
The lines themselves are useless if you don't have the right energy.
That means be self entertained when you deliver them.
You'll find that this is how to get REALLY good with women.
Because all women are going to want your Alpha Male attention when you know how to tease women 😉
Let us begin the epic teases…
Frame Control Teasing
I saw a short girl at a bar and I said to her…
“You're so tall! Why are you so damn tall?”
She smiled and looked at me like I complimented her and didn't know what to do.
“Why do you think I'm tall?” With a confused look to her eyes.
I said to her, “You just seem WAYYY too tall for me.” This is a direct challenge.
She cracked up and so did her friends. You see overly confident women respond well to this.
Teasing and negging can work when the woman you're talking to has a massive ego about her looks.
Why? Because it shows you're on her level and her looks don't intimidate you.
What can you take from this? Frame control teasing is saying something that's designed to get her off of her composure and confuse her brain.
Now why did this work for me? Well you see, I had a witty tonality.
Some of you might be like, isn't that negging? Kinda yes, kinda no because I teased her height, however, because it's not true, it is not the way mystery method talks about it.
Bringing down a woman’s value isn’t really THAT cool if you think about it, especially if it comes from a negative place.
The thing I want you to realize is when you are self entertained while teasing, you can say literally anything with a witty tonality.
Have fun when teasing, and directly challenge women. Game is meant to be fun.
Teasing Her Eye Contact
This is advanced to be clear. It's because it's very powerful and kinda evil.
Why is it evil? It's because it works like crazy, but it's best to be used when there is investment.
So I recommend you only say it when you see attraction signs.
For example, she's laughing at your jokes, touching you, and flirting with her eyes.
“I honestly don't think we can be friends anymore if you keep looking at me like that.”
So. Fucking. Powerful. I love dropping this line.
Why? Because you can lead it to so many directions. Remember when I said be masculine?
That means you must know how to lead the conversation to where it should go.
“You have bad girl eyes but with a good girl face. It's getting me kinda fucked up. Don't do that, it's not cool. I feel like you are doing this on purpose.”
I said this a lot. Maybe a lot a lot. Probably too many times. But it works so fucking well. So steal it 😉
“Look I get it, you like me and that's why you're looking at me like that. So how long have you been attracted to me?”
It doesn't matter what she says and how she responds as long as you say it at the right time. If you maintain an immovable frame, you can say this to her when you can tell she is flirting with her eyes. That's the right time to drop it.
Teasing Her Smile
“If you keep smiling at me like that, I'm afraid I'll have to call the police.”
Great one I've used it with a lot of success.
“That's it, we're done. No more ice cream for you if you keep smiling at me.”
I'm just getting started with some more teases.
Maintain your frame my friend. You cannot say these teases without having a strong frame.
“I feel like we will never get along because you keep being so fucking cute with that smile.”
I said this one to my girlfriend. True story. She loved it.
Remember what I said? Be polarizing. Women love a man that can be brave and socially fearless.
“Do you always show off your pearly, ultra glimmering white teeth? Is that why you're smiling so much? Stop laughing, you'll make me laugh.”
Say this with a straight face. You want her laughing while you're nonreactive.
It would be wise of you to wink at her my dude. Don't say any of these lines from a negative place.
You can even say “I'm totally teasing you.”
The most important point to remember is that you have the right, positive playful energy.
Teasing Yourself Playfully
I fucking love this one. I heart it so much. Being self entertained is of top priority!
And don't say any of these teases to women where you feel like you are not enough.
It's all in the way you deliver it my handsome friend.
“You know what's really cool? When I breathe my nose whistles, and between my nose and my feet, I'm a one man band.”
LOL. You gotta deliver that one. Make women laugh, you'll attract them fast.
So here's this funny field report when I went out with friends.
My close friend Josh told me that he thinks this girl is checking me out.
She came over and I said “You don't want to talk to me.” She asked me “Why? Your friend here told me great things.”
I said to her, “Really? Cause I'm a dick. You don't want to know anything about me.”
This stands out as one of the first field reports where I realized that when I teased myself (in a self entertained way) that women immediately feel attraction towards you. I got her number that night.
You see how this works? It's because it communicates you do not care for her approval.
You're willing to talk bad about yourself in a playful way. That's the key isn't it?
Be playful my dude. Give her your non-needy energy.
Tease Everyone, Not Just Women
Another field report coming from the gym. I walked in and this dude was working at the front desk.
I remembered his face. He's got a beard. Pretty chill and laid back.
And I remember him because he filmed me doing shoulder presses a few nights before. What a guy.
I said, “Bro, I've been coming here a lot, please tell me you remember which post workout I always get.”
I looked at him without flinching. These two women started laughing to my left.
He said, “Yeah man, I gotchu, no worries.”
I told him, “Thank god because you scared me there for a second with your liquified brain.”
The two young women laughed again.
You have to consider teasing everyone but be carefree about it.
If you have approach anxiety, then I suggest you start out by teasing your close friends first.
Just note that you don't tease guys with push pull, false disqualifiers, and negging.
That should be obvious because that’s kinda weird.
Tease People With a Carefree Heart
That dude you see in the picture? One of my buddies, known him for years.
We tease each other, however, it's a little different with close friends.
Teasing is meant to generate positive emotional stimulus with all human beings.
“I've issued my man cave as a do not disturb zone. If you enter, I'll feed your guts to the little squirrels.”
Be random my dude. Be polarizing and unafraid to say whatever the hell you want.
“I don't let random hot girls in to my car unless it's on a Wednesday.”
Pushing them away is extremely powerful.
Often I like to get random with women because it's an emotional rollercoaster for them.
“I feel like you are trouble with how sexy you are. I'm also pretty damn sexy myself, and as a sexy man, I feel like you are too much competition so honestly, we cannot be friends anymore, I SERIOUSLY cannot talk to you. It's too bad because you're fun to talk to.”
Have a wide range of voice tonalities. I'd rather have you change up the routine with a very good delivery, then for you to go in to dip shit mode and forget it, resulting in no attraction.
Teasing women is easy, once you're comfortable with it. So I want you to practice teasing women.
Don't just read this, I want you to act. Because this isn't going to work with you just reading an article.
You have to take action my friend. Start teasing your friends first if it makes you uncomfortable. Then gradually start teasing women.
Once you are comfortable teasing women, you are hands down a polarizing Alpha Male.
If you feel like you're ready to advance in your game, I strongly recommend that you watch this video.
You're going to learn how to escalate with a woman the right way.
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I appreciate you reading this brother. You are getting better looking by the minute when you take action.
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