The culture of online dating apps is changing. It's becoming more and more difficult for men to get noticed by women because of the way the apps are designed to cater to women over men. Now I'm not saying you should swear off dating apps completely. But I have an alternative for you that could work much more in your favor. And it has to do with how you approach women IRL. Check it out…
As you probably know, I’m all about getting you results with women as quickly and easily as possible. That’s why online dating apps have been a game changer for many people over the last few years… Because it eliminates the scariest part for most guys — the approach — and lets you talk to lots of women without much effort or risk of rejection.
But the anonymous nature of these apps, which is what makes it easier for guys to talk to women… Is also the thing that is killing them.
Tons of guys feel like they can say whatever they want on an app — no matter how crude or inappropriate it is — without any consequence. Whereas if they were to say the same thing in real life, they’d worry about being slapped or humiliated in public.
So what’s the result of this kind of behavior?
Research shows women are leaving Tinder and other similar apps in droves. There are now twice as many guys on Tinder as there are women in the USA. Some of these women are moving to other apps that give them more control, like a new app called Pickable.
This app lets women use it without even needing a profile. Instead, they choose which guys they like, and if the guy is chosen then he sees her picture and can decide if he likes her back. I have some clients that have gotten good results on here so far. Especially since it hasn’t blown up yet like Tinder or Bumble. So you may want to check it out and give it a try.
What’s interesting though is how many men are complaining it’s unfair. They don’t like that it’s designed for women to have more power than them. But that’s the way the industry is headed now, and it’ll only likely get worse (or better, depending on your perspective).
I hate to be blunt, but dating apps and sites don’t care about you. They care about what we want as women. Because they know if they can get enough women using their service, the men will automatically follow. It’s the same reason why many nightclubs will have “ladies night” and offer free entry and drinks for us…
But it’s almost unheard of to see a “men’s night” with the same kind of deal for you.
Is it fair? Not really. It’s just the reality of how things are.
Men go where the women are… And women prefer to go somewhere that caters to what we want (and where we won’t be sleazed on).
So my prediction is that it’s going to become tougher for most guys to get results with dating apps. The ratios of women to men will get worse… And guys will have virtually no control over which women they can talk to. You’ll be competing against countless other guys just for the chance to even see her profile.
It means the guys who have become reliant on Tinder and apps to date and sleep with women, will soon be in for a shock. It’s going to be much harder to get results, especially with quality women.
So what’s going to work instead? Actually, it’s the same thing that works the best right now. Approaching women in real life and creating chemistry with them.
The truth is, BECAUSE of these dating apps, we actually get approached less than ever before. Guys have become lazy and settle for the easy option. But trust me, there’s no dating app that can give us the same kind of feelings that we get when a man approaches us in real life and makes a strong impression.
You have a HUGE advantage because most men don’t even bother to try… and those that do typically screw it up. It means the odds are way in your favor, unlike with apps, and you have total control over who you meet, date and sleep with. Do you know how many women are actually DYING for a man to come and sweep us off our feet in real life…
So we can brag to our friends that we met a guy somewhere other than Tinder?
There are thousands of women you could be meeting every single day. All you need is the proven blueprint to approaching us in any situation.
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