Men always envy those that are different from them. A man really needs to be focused on his confidence and putting his best qualities forward. This will help make him more appealing and he will get the girl. There is a plan to approach women and they will end up liking you.
Have you ever noticed how everyone wants what they don’t have? The grass is always greener, right? For example, a lot of men wish they were taller, because they think women like tall guys.
But guess what… tall guys wish they were shorter too! I hear it all the time… “Man, I wish I wasn’t so tall. I always have to bend over when I’m talking to people, it’s so awkward.”
Listen… Whatever “flaw” you have that you wish were different… there’s another guy who WISHES he had it just like you!
The skinny nerdy guy desperately wishes he could be the fat, funny guy… and the fat, funny guy, wishes he’d lose some weight and that people would take him more seriously…
Two guys can be in the same room, jealous of each other.
Isn’t that the craziest thing? So what does that mean? It all points to a deeper issue. The real problem isn’t that you’re not tall enough, or that you’re too tall, or anything else…
It’s simply that you’re not fully accepting of yourself. You’re ALREADY enough as you are. And as soon as you can FEEL that, within yourself, all those worries about being too tall, too skinny, too fat, not funny enough, or too funny… all that goes away in an instant. And as soon as you can FEEL that within yourself, women will feel it too. And THAT is what creates real attraction!
Trust me, a short, fat, bald guy who knows who he is and OWNS it is a million times more attractive than a tall, chiseled guy who crumbles at the first hint of an awkward silence.
Think about the thing about yourself that you’re the MOST insecure about… Now imagine that was no longer an issue. What if you could stop worrying about that entirely? How would that affect your confidence?
Well, let me tell you something.
That can be your reality, starting today. I give you permission to stop worrying about that. Right now. Are you worried that women will judge you for it?
They will… only if YOU are already judging yourself for it. If it’s not a big deal to you, it won’t be for them either. And yes, that goes for YOU too. Yes, you, and that big, scary issue you’ve been beating yourself up over!
Now I understand it can take more than a day to get over our insecurities… so how about a little exercise: The next time you strike up a conversation with a beautiful woman, pretend in your own mind that your biggest “flaw” is actually your FAVORITE thing about yourself.
You don’t have to believe it (at first). Just act as if. And notice the response you get! Make sense?
If this little “hack” rocked your socks… then you need to hear this:
If you want to learn how to get down to the nuts and bolts of WHY you’re having trouble approaching the women you want…
The reason why you’re having a hard time getting past the gripping feeling in your chest every time you finally decide to make the first move…
Then you need to get to the root causes of why this is all happening in the first place by checking out The Approach Blueprint.
It’s THE blueprint on how to open women up in that first interaction without feeling an ounce of fear… or feeling creepy… or not knowing what to say.
My clients who’ve been through the program report having completely different reactions from women the NEXT DAY.
Let me know how it goes for YOU.. Hope to hear from ya!
Your Wing Girl,