Wouldn’t it be amazing if that new girl you’re interested in was thinking about you NON-STOP? Believe it or not, there are a few simple things you can do to make her absolutely OBSESS over you. Read on and I’ll share my TOP 3 tips!
If you want to win your way into a woman’s heart (or even just her pants)… The first step is to work your way into her mind so she can’t stop thinking of you. Kinda like one of those catchy pop songs that you can’t get outta your head… Except instead of trying desperately to make you go away, we’ll be obsessing over how we can get MORE of you.
And when this happens, it’s good news for you… Because we’re investing time and energy into thinking about you, which makes us realize that we must be into you.
So how do you actually create this kind of brain-sticking effect? Here are 3 ways you can do it.
#1 Be mysterious
If something is a mystery, it’s just human nature to want to solve it. Which means if a woman finds you mysterious, it’s only natural she’ll spend time thinking about you to try and figure you out. However, most guys go about this tactic all wrong. They think being mysterious means never telling her anything about yourself, or avoiding all of her questions.
That doesn’t make you seem mysterious. It makes you seem shady.
Instead, you want to give her SOME of your story… but not ALL of it.
A good way to do this is to answer some of her questions directly. But with others, playfully hold back on revealing the answer.
For example, let’s say she asks you what your biggest passion in life is.
You could tell her that it’s golf, traveling, food, or any other interest you might have. There’s no mystery with that though. So what if you said something like, “Well I’d love to tell you, but that’s really more of a 3rd date conversation. By then I’ll have a better idea whether or not you could handle the answer.”
If you do this with a playful smile, I guarantee it’s going to make you way more mysterious in her mind. And she’ll be dying for that 3rd date to come around so she can find out the answer.
One caveat with this technique. Don’t use cliche lines like “Well I could tell you but then I’d have to kill you.” Part of being mysterious is NOT saying something she’s heard a thousand times before.
#2 Have a life
What I mean by this is have things going on in your life that keep you busy. There’s nothing less mysterious than a man who is available 24/7 and responds to all of our texts within an instant.
If you want us to be thinking about you, then you need to create a gap for that to happen. There needs to be some space for us to wonder what you’re doing and when we’ll hear back from you.
Now I’m not suggesting you wait days to text back, or use this as some kind of gimmick to play mind games. I’m saying actually have real things you’re busy with. This makes you come across way less needy and more interesting…
And this combination is crucial if you want to be a guy we can’t stop thinking about.
#3 Put yourself first
This goes against the common wisdom that women want a man to put us first.
Sure, it sounds good in theory that a guy will make us the center of his universe… But it gets boring real quick, and we’ll start to lose respect for him for not being more of a challenge.
We can’t obsess over a guy who’s already obsessed over us, it just doesn’t work that way.
The kind of guys who get stuck in our heads are the ones who are confident and assertive enough to pursue what they want.
They don’t put their own needs and desires on hold to appease other people.
This doesn’t mean you need to ignore our feelings in the process… but you should start taking action based on what’ll make YOU happy first and foremost.
Now, when you put these 3 things together…
You’ll be well on your way to being the kind of guy we constantly think about.
And if you want to take it a step further and become the guy we’re obsessed about dating and sleeping with…
The last female friend you’ll ever need,