Beautiful women almost never have to “chase” guys. They’ve got plenty to choose from close at hand.Understanding the how’s and why’s of this mindset will help you find more success with women and have them chasing YOU. Read on to learn more!
Did you enjoy the “braingasm” from my last post?
I hope you did. If you didn’t see it, then go back and read it. It’ll give you some key insights into the reason of WHY you might be getting ghosted.
Even friend-zoned. BUT… there’s one thing I didn’t get into in the last post.
That thing is:
WHAT is actually happening in the woman’s brain when you get ghosted or friend-zoned.
So let’s dive in.
I want you to picture this whenever you’re interacting with an attractive woman. I want you to imagine that you’re on a tight-rope. On either side of this tight-rope are two things.
ATTRACTION & INTEREST.
What’s the difference? Let me break it down.
I want you to think of attraction is the stuff that makes her EXCITED about you. The riskiness. The charm. The fun. Everything that gets her to play with her hair when she’s thinking about you at work.
The stuff she giggles about with her friends on the phone. That’s real attraction. And I want you to think of INTEREST as two key things. Trust and rapport.
A woman (especially an attractive one) will not commit to you if she doesn’t feel trust and rapport.
No matter how attracted to you she feels. She might give you the chance of a couple of dates. But you’ll find yourself getting hit with one-word texts.
If she answers you at ALL.
The problem with most men is that they have a hard time maintaining the balance.
Between ATTRACTION AND INTEREST. If you build up attraction but no interest, you’ll find yourself getting ghosted. There’s nothing to build off. And you’re left being nothing but a fun weekend she had that one time.
If you build up interest but no attraction, you’re going to get friend-zoned. She’ll think of you as someone she can trust and rely-on.
Someone she can spend all night talking to about her problems. But she’ll think of you “like a brother”. OUF. That’s rough!
You have to do BOTH. Or you’ll end up getting ghosted or friend-zoned. Now I realize this may be tricky.
Save yourself the frustration. TRUST ME.
Your Wing Girl In Crime,