Daygame and Approaching Women
By Carlos Xuma
What really IS “Daygame?”
Very simply it's meeting women anywhere.
Let me try that again:
You see, bars and clubs seem to be all that guys think of when they think about meeting women. But there is a wide and undiscovered country out there where we are able to meet women:
– In the park
– At a friend's party
– at a business event
– at the gym
– in a coffee shop
– at a cocktail party
– at a library or bookstore…
Literally there is an infinite number of places out there to meet women that we're not using right now.
It's not just about walking up and talking to women cold on the street.
You see, I've talked to a lot of guys who have very strong beliefs about meeting women in everyday places. They seem to be scared to death of it because the woman will be guarded… cautious…
After all, you're a stranger!
Guys, you don't have to have anyone “approve” of where you meet a woman.
You don't need to meet a woman in certain designated areas.
Regardless of what we think women MIGHT be thinking about it.
And one of the biggest mistakes is trying to think FOR a woman.
When you try and get into her head, you'll probably get it wrong.
Whenever I meet couples, I ask them how they met. The woman tends to romanticize the first meeting, but the guy always tells the facts.
Most of them met at a store, or in a gym, or in places where the guy simply sucked it up and did the unthinkable…
He approached her!
In fact, a couple weeks ago I met a woman in the Apple Store and we had a GREAT conversation and connection.
Last night, after 2 weeks, SHE CALLED ME.
I haven't initiated any contact since then, but she called me up and left a 2-minute message.
How cool is THAT?
And, honestly, it wasn't a very spectacular approach. I just started talking with her for no reason. We were standing at the computers just checking out the MacBooks.
She was a stranger.
Now she's a possibility for me. One that I would never have had if I had let the thought: “She doesn't know me – she's going to be scared of me” get into my head.
Repeat after me:
ALL limitations are self-imposed!
Your Day-walker friend,
I hope you can see the hidden message in Carlos' article. He is talking about knowing that options are around you at all times.
It is a topic that I talked about in great depth in one of my previous emails.
If there is one thing that you take away from each and every one of these newsletters I would like it to be that you understand that the more you open your eyes, the more you will see potential for experiences.
This means knowing possibilities are everywhere. You just have to learn to ask for things and not expect them to automatically come your way.
I have learned, that in life, things do not land in your lap. You have to want and go after what you crave.
If you crave a relationship, a date or a one night stand you have to take the necessary steps.
My advice as a Wing Girl and as a woman is to see every introduction to another human as an opportunity.
Let's say you make a new male friend. This male friend is tapped into his own network of many people that you do not know. By opening your mouth and asking for introductions you may meet your next wing man, date, girlfriend or even wife.
The wonderful thing about life is that you never know where someone or something will lead you.
You just need to be open and ask for what you want.
I know I may sound a little preachy right now but these are the rules that myself and each of my Wing Girls live by with great success.
As Carlos said “limitations are self imposed”.
I highly recommend Carlos and all of his materials. Check out this free video presentation he put together on how to approach any woman without fear or rejection:
Carlos' Free Video
As always your Wing Girls are here to provide you with the necessary tools to help you get the women you want and be that man that women desire.
Carlos' materials are definitely a great start!