If you’ve been spending time with a woman and think things are going well but you can’t seem to make a physical connection, you may have been placed in the dreaded “Friend Zone” without even realizing it. Read THIS to learn how to avoid that trap!
So I was just reading an article and it has an important lesson I want to share with you. It was about how the singer Moby (remember him?) claimed he dated Natalie Portman around 20 years ago.
But Portman responded by saying they never actually dated — they just hung out a couple of times after meeting at one of his concerts…
And that she actually found his behavior kinda creepy, considering she had just graduated from high school and he was in his 30’s. Now, what I want to talk about has nothing to do with age. As far as I’m concerned, if you want to date a woman 20 years younger and she’s also into you — and legal — then knock yourself out.
No, the lesson here is about whether or not you’re actually ‘dating’ a woman… or just stuck in the friend zone and you don’t even know it.
Because what happens sometimes is a guy will meet a woman who he’s really attracted to, and she’ll pay him some kind of attention. And since he’s super into her, he’ll start embellishing their relationship in his head into something that it simply isn’t.
So in the woman’s mind, he’s just some guy she talks to and maybe hangs out with…
But in his mind, they are ‘dating’ or developing some kind of a relationship. Obviously this type of situation is extremely awkward, and usually embarrasses one or both of the people involved.
So why does it happen… and how do you avoid it? Well, it’s the result of her liking you as a person, but not feeling any sexual attraction towards you.
Typically it’s because you haven’t said or done anything to indicate your interest in her is sexual (probably because you don’t want to offend her or ruin your image of being a ‘nice guy’).
You may have had a nice conversation, and created some rapport with her… But didn’t do anything to create that spark of sexual attraction or chemistry that we want to feel with a man.
And this is usually what happens when you don’t know how to flirt with a woman properly.
That’s because good flirting is like the fuel that lets a fire burn. The more fuel you add the more intense and hotter it gets… But without it, the fire just withers out and dies. You need to think of sexual attraction in the same way as that fire.
Either you fuel it with flirting so it turns into a raging inferno of lust and passion… Or you don’t flirt, and snuff out any romantic or sexual flames that may have existed.
And one of the big differences that many guys tell me after going through my F Formula program…
\Is that they always know exactly where they stand with women now. Flirting eliminates that weird gray area where you’re never quite sure what your relationship is and if a woman is into you or not…
So you’ll never find yourself embarrassed like Moby was, thinking a woman is dating you only to find out she’s got a completely different idea. And if you happen to be one of the many men who thinks women are either attracted to you or they’re not…
You’ll be pleasantly surprised once you experience that you can actually switch on our attraction when you know these flirting secrets.
I can’t promise you’ll be dating movie stars like Natalie Portman…
But I do guarantee you’ll be attracting more women than you ever have in your life before.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,