Here’s the deal. My advice mainly focused on making it easy for you to attract and date women. But NOT all women are worth dating and you should never date a woman as I will explain in this article. If you’re not careful, you might end up with some highly toxic woman who will make your life miserable.
After the whole Johnny Depp and Amber Heard saga, I’m sure you know what toxic women can do to you. That’s why in this article, I wanna help you spot a toxic woman before you commit to her… so you can avoid the drama, misery and heartbreak that’s guaranteed when you date a toxic girl.
I’m gonna give you the top 5 signs that prove a woman is toxic so can walk away before you get into serious trouble. Read this thoroughly because it can save you from a lot of unnecessary suffering.
Here are the 5 signs a woman is toxic and you should never date a woman with these signs:
Sign #1: Lack of Accountability
Think of the girl you’re into and ask yourself this question. If I gave her constructive criticism about certain behaviours she displays or how I think she could be better, how would she react? Would she throw a huge fit? Cause drama? Blame you and criticize you back? Claim you don’t love her? Storm out and make you chase after her?
If the answer is yes, she’s not the one for you. Toxic women lack accountability for their actions. They won’t ever accept that they’ve done something wrong. Or that there’s room for improvement in some area.
When you ask her to own her actions or point out how she can do better, you’ll probably find her lashing out on you, blaming you, making excuses, starting a huge fight and basically doing whatever it takes to avoid responsibility for her behavior. I hope you see why this is toxic.
When you’re in a relationship, you’ll have fights and arguments. If you’re with a woman who lacks accountability, you’ll hardly ever have a productive discussion with her. Conflicts will grow rapidly. And eventually you’ll reach an ugly end to your relationship.
On the contrary, when you’re with a high quality woman, she’ll respect your perspective when you give her some sort of constructive criticism. And even if it hurts a little or if it’s uncomfortable, even if there was a little bit of an emotional outburst at first, she would eventually consider it and be willing to talk about it. Without blaming or shaming. Without causing unnecessary drama and trying to make you jealous or angry.
That’s the kind of woman you should be with. It becomes so much easier to navigate a relationship when you’re with a woman like that. Also, I recommend you watch my video that talks about the 8 types of women you should date and the traits you should look for.
Sign #2: Extreme Desire for Self Gratification
This means being extremely concerned with one’s pleasure or gratification. In other words, you MUST get what you want, or else you’ll make it a headache for your partner. Let’s say every time you do something that you want to do but your girl isn’t particularly thrilled about…
If she throws a huge fit, criticises you or even insults and shames you for it… It shows she has an extreme need for self-gratification. If she expects you to do something like take her out to a certain place or bring her flowers or something of that sort… And you’re unable to do it for some reason… And then she makes you feel terrible about it… often by crying, getting angry or giving you the “silent treatment”… It shows that she has an extreme need for self-gratification.
The reason this is toxic is that relationships do require some compromises, and someone who genuinely likes you, respects you and wants to be with you long term, will be willing to compromise at times. Yes, it’s essential to prioritize your own happiness and well-being in life. And each of us is responsible for our own happiness… not anyone else’s.
But that said, when you’re building a relationship, at times, you will have to compromise and even be okay with slight doses of disappointment. Not really because you wanna make your partner happy or keep them interested… But to show that you’re committed to the relationship and want to maintain harmony. Someone who’s obsessed with their own pleasure and gratification will almost never compromise. And if they have to, they’ll make you feel terrible about it. They’ll cause a lot of drama. The drama that you don’t need in your life.
Sign #3: Controlling Behavior
Controlling behaviors come in many shapes and forms. For example:
- Is she trying to dictate who you hang out with?
- Who do you talk to and not talk to?
- Is she deciding what you will do and not do on a daily basis?
- Is she telling you what you can wear and not wear?
- How you can talk and not talk?
- Is she asking you to get rid of a close friend without any good reason?
I could go on. But you get the point. When a woman starts to micromanage your life and starts to make your choices for you… you need to draw a line. This isn’t healthy.
You as an individual are free to do what you want. If she has a problem with something you do or someone you hang out with, the best she can do is talk to you about it openly and respectfully. And explain her point of view.
That’s what happens in a healthy relationship between two healthy people. She can’t just tell you what you can and cannot do. If she does, you need to speak up and establish some boundaries. And if she’s not respectful of those boundaries, then you better walk away.
Sign #4: Excess Jealousy
Jealousy is just another form of control. If she gets pissed off when you talk, touch, call, text, hang out, or look in the general direction of another person… and then proceeds to take her anger out on you, it's an attempt to control your behavior. And it’s definitely not healthy.
Jealousy can even lead to crazy behaviors such as hacking into your partner’s email account, looking through their text messages while they’re in the shower or even following them around town and showing up unannounced.
If your girl is doing any of these things… And if you find her getting extremely envious too often… then she’s not worth being with.
Yes, in most relationships some level may exist. Especially in the early stages. And that’s fine. But when it’s excessive and you notice it happens too often, especially without any good reason, it becomes toxic. And it creates unnecessary drama and discord in the relationship.
A good, healthy relationship is built on trust. If your partner has trust issues, then she needs to work on it. And you can support her in doing that. But she’s not even willing to recognize she has a problem and continues to be jealous and controlling… You need to walk away. Because there’s a 99.99% chance that your relationship will not work out anyway.
In order to have a healthy, happy and stable relationship, you really need to be selective about the woman you date. My video on the 8 Types of Women You Should Date is a great primer on that topic.
Sign #5: All Take, No Give
Whether it’s paying the bills, having sex or making other efforts in a relationship… If you seem to do all the work, while she is oblivious to your needs or unwilling to give more than or even as much as she takes… then she obviously is not someone you should date. If you’re dating a girl, she should invest in your as much as you invest in her. If she isn’t, then she’s not really into you.
In fact, there’s a good chance that she’s still looking around and will leave you when some other guy she likes comes around. It’s a difficult truth to accept, but it’s a truth nonetheless. A girl who respects you and is truly committed to you will put effort into the relationship.
I’ve seen that many guys get into relationships with women who are not really committed to them. Or women who have a bunch of other toxic behaviours. But they still tolerate it because deep down they feel that they can’t do any better. I’m here to tell you that’s bullshit. You can do better.
In fact, you must do better. For your own sake. Your own happiness. If you don’t demand the best for yourself, who’s gonna do it for you? So when it comes to women, never compromise.
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