Some guys start strong but then just…run out of things to say, which guaranteed to KILL any attraction that may have been developing between you and the woman you’re talking to. Click here to read my TOP TIPS that will guarantee you never have that problem again!
Ever been talking to a woman you really like and your mind goes completely blank? And as hard as you try, you just can’t think of what to say next? If you’ve had that happen, you’ll know how painful it is.
The seconds feel like minutes… As you can feel that awkward tension start to kill any attraction she felt for you. And even though this is a situation most guys have been in more than once…
They still haven’t come up with a solution to stop it from happening again. But the good news is it’s not that hard to eliminate this problem for good.
All you need is the right plan to follow and taking the time to practice it. If you want an in-depth training on how to do this, then go and check this out.
For now, let me share 3 tips you can start using right away that’ll help when your mind starts going blank.
#1 Lower the bar
One reason guys can’t think of what to say is because their expectations are too high. They think anything they talk about needs to be the most interesting thing a woman has ever heard in her life.
But HOW you say something is more important than WHAT you say. That’s because we’re picking up on all the other signals you’re sending… Through your tonality, body language, facial expressions, and energy in the conversation.
It’s why, when you know how, you can talk about almost anything and we’ll still be attracted to you.
So lower your standards for the topics you talk about, and start paying more attention to how you’re communicating.
#2 Use what’s in your environment
Another reason guys struggle for what to say is they’re too in their own head… And they miss all of the subjects in the environment around them they could be talking about.
No matter where you are when talking to a woman… If you look around there’ll always be something you can talk about when you get stuck. What you need to do is practice talking about random things you see, and find ways to make it relatable.
So if you were in a coffee shop… it could be the music that’s playing, someone else around you who stands out, anything on the menu, posters or artwork on the walls, or anything else you notice.
You can give an opinion on it, ask a question, tell a story that it reminds you of, make a joke, or whatever else pops into your head. When you practice doing this, before long it’ll feel like second nature.
#3 Be comfortable with the silence
So this third tip is a little different. Instead of feeling like you have to think of something to say to fill the silence… If you’re completely comfortable and relaxed, she’s more likely to say something to continue the conversation.
A silence is really only awkward if you both feel awkward during it. So you can actually use the silence to show that you’re confident and not feeling that social pressure… which makes you more attractive.
Now, the caveat to this last point is that you need to have triggered at least some level of interest in her for this to work. If she’s bored out of her brain and not into you at all, any silence will be the perfect opportunity for her to leave.
But if you’ve hooked her attention, she’ll want to continue the conversation to find out more about you. So if you don’t want to be the guy that’s boring women to death…
And instead be the man that can capture a woman’s interest and attention within minutes, if not seconds…
The last female friend you’ll ever need,