Who said TV was bad for you? As a totally open, reality show freak, I get the privilege of watching enhanced human behavior on a daily basis. One of my favorite shows, that just started up again a few weeks ago, is ABC's The Bachelor.
Every guys dream right? 25 women, all vying for his love, admiration and attention. Or vying to stomp out their female competition. Either way, it's entertaining and psychologically fascinating.
Wanted to share last nights final rose ceremony with you for two reasons:
1. The subtle body language of women, trying to get the attention of 1 man was ridiculous.
2. It's so interesting to watch women suppress what they are really feeling.
It's all so subtle. Check it out:
The signals that women give are SOOOOOO subtle. Even I had trouble picking out some of them. But as a woman, who has done each of those actions, I can tell what's really lying behind every body movement.
One HUGE sign she's into you is when she fight for validation. Or as I like to refer to it “impress a guy with facts about me”. I did this recently and I almost kicked myself when I started noticing that I was doing it. It was almost as if I was screaming “I have value!!!! Like me, like me, like me”. I honestly wanted to kick myself for doing it but it just kept on happening.
When a woman starts slipping in facts about why she's great or what she has accomplished, It's a sure fire sign that you have ignited the fire within! You have her bubbling and it's showing through her nerves and desire for you to pay attention to her and think she is great.
So if you approach a woman and start talking to her and she starts bragging about something off topic from what you are discussing, she is attempting to show value. A.K.A She's attracted and TOTALLY into you!!! At this point you could literally do anything you want with her and she'll be more than happy to do it.
NOTE: The one thing you have to remember, is that the signals in the video and fighting for validation signal, are signs she's into you once you have already solidified a connection with a woman. So these are the signs to look for that say “I'm into you. Let's make this happen.”
So now that you know more about the signs women give, the big question is: “WHAT DO I DO ONCE I KNOW A WOMAN IS FLIRTING WITH ME?”
ANSWER: You make your move and go in for the kiss!
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