I've got another challenge for you to accept and do by the end of the weekend. It's a simple trick to catch her attention! Even though I'm not into tricks, this one is okay 😉
The challenge is called, Nickname it!
I came up with this challenge when I was at Whole Foods this morning getting my coffee when this guy walked in that I see nearly every morning.
He looked at me, smirked and said “Coffee buddy, what's up”. I immediately got shy for a second, hard to believe right 😉
I realized that because he nicknamed me I instantly saw him as someone of higher value than me AND I felt attracted to him.
1. Because he was comfortable enough to nickname me
2. Nicknames are kind of fun and funny
3. Nicknames make me feel special
4. Nicknames make me feel feminine. Not sure why, but they totally do.
I love that he doesn't even know me, but he had the confidence to nickname me.
The fact that he did this rather than politely initiating conversation caught my attention and made me like him more.
So this weekend I want you to Nickname It!!!
Everyone that you come in contact with, I want you to give them a fun nickname.
If you're at a bar and the waitress is kind of mopey, call her mopey face or sad sally. Then tease her a little and cheer her up.
If your coffee girl is really perky and smiling call her smiles.
You get the idea.
But I want you to dish out nicknames to women, or even people for that matter, and watch how your rapport changes. It's almost as if you skip all formalities and go straight to connecting.
So go try it this weekend and then come back here to report back to me and let me know how it went. Write what happened in the comments section below.
In the comment box below, tell me what happened after you did this exercise.
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