If you’re a single man and you’re over 40, you’re probably relying on your maturity and life experiences to interest women. And it’s probably not working, or at least not as well as you’d like. THIS works better. Check it out.
Have you ever had one of those lightbulb above the head moments… Where things suddenly click into place, and you finally understand something that’s been eluding you?
That’s exactly what happened for one of my students, Mark, recently. You see, Mark is in his mid-50’s and been divorced for a few years now. And like a lot of guys around that age, he’s mostly interested in dating younger women.
So even though Mark had been watching my YouTube videos and reading my newsletters, he wasn’t really getting the results he was hoping for. That’s why he decided to sign up for some coaching with me.
And it was this snippet of conversation that uncovered where he was going wrong…
Me: So tell me what you’re doing to attract women?
Mark: What do you mean?
Me: Like are you playfully teasing them, being a challenge, and flirting and having fun?
Mark: Oh no, I don’t really do any of that stuff. I figured that’s only for younger guys. I try to act more like a gentleman and be the mature older man.
And that’s a mistake a lot of men make.
For some reason, they get it in their heads that what I’m teaching doesn’t apply to them…
Even though I’ve never given them any reason to think that. In fact, as I went on to tell Mark, playful teasing and flirting can work EVEN BETTER for older guys… simply because it’s not as expected.
Women in their 20’s and 30’s are used to older guys being more serious and trying to impress them with money, their job title, car, and other superficial stuff.
And that’s a turn off for most women, no matter how old the guy is.
So when an older guy comes along and actually knows how to flirt in a fun and playful way… It can trigger huge feelings of attraction, curiosity, and intrigue.
When I explained this to Mark, it was that lightbulb above the head moment I touched on earlier. I could practically hear the wheels turning in his mind as he finally grasped this concept, after thinking it didn’t apply to him for so long.
And you know what?
Ever since he’s been made a committed effort to start playfully flirting with women, his results have dramatically improved.
I mean it’s hardly surprising… He’s now focusing on having FUN with women, and in turn they’re having more fun being around him. And even the younger women who were giving him the cold shoulder before are now responding positively.
So if the thing you’re struggling with is creating that spark of attraction that gets women sexually interested in you…
No matter what your age is… Or whatever self-limiting belief as to why you think this won’t work for you… It simply isn’t true.
I’ve seen this work time and time again for every type of man you could think of.
It crosses barriers of age, race, religion, looks etc. and taps into our hardwired biology of what we’re attracted to in a man.
So if you don’t have THIS critical skill… you’re sabotaging your results with every woman you meet.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,