Texting is an incredibly powerful weapon.
Use it wisely, and you’ll keep yourself in our minds and have us counting down the time until we can see you again.
Use it poorly, and you’ll leave us questioning whether we’d be better of giving up on men and dating women instead.
And while the subject of texting is far too great to entirely cover here, I want to talk about one crucial mistake I see guys making again and again.
Watch the short video below to discover what it is.
Hopefully you can see that the huge mistake is OVER-INVESTING.
Why is this such a turn-off for us?
Because it comes across as you being needy, which is the most universally unattractive trait a man can have!
Now the problem is, investing too much over text is a very easy trap to fall into. And it can manifest in numerous ways.
Lets’ say you text a girl you really like and the hours tick by without a reply. It’s a natural reaction to want to reach out and contact her again.
But you need to resist this urge.
All you’ll be doing is communicating your insecurity… that you’re dependent on her messaging you back so you can feel assured that everything is okay.
A man with that kind of emotional neediness is NOT attractive to women!
Another way that guys often invest too much is by sending much longer messages than we do.
Don’t get me wrong: I’m not saying you can never send long texts to a girl.
But if you look at the message history and our texts are a few words each while yours look like chapters in a novel, the investment ratio is way out of balance.
The simple solution is to mirror what she gives you.
So, if she takes 6 hours to reply to you, then you’d take at least a few hours before messaging her back.
If she’s excitedly texting you back within minutes, then feel free to go ahead and do the same.
And if her messages are longer and full of detail, then you have more leeway to match hers.
By the way, this guideline of matching her investment levels doesn’t just apply to text. It’s something you should be conscious of when interacting face-to-face and throughout the relationship as well.
So, put this into practice with the next girl you’re texting and notice the difference it makes in how she responds to you.
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