Do you know what the most common thread is between the men I coach on attracting and dating women? They all say they’re too “blank” to get a girl. Too fat, too old, too poor, too WHATEVER for any of my proven techniques to work for them. Let me tell you why that is absolutely false…
As you may know, I recently surveyed my list to see what guys needed the most help with. And while I’ll be addressing a number of these issues in future emails (so keep an eye on your inbox)…
One thing that stood out was the number of men who doubted that my advice was applicable to them… Because they believed they were in a situation, or faced a challenge, that needed a different strategy.
Here are some of the common objections guys had:
- I’m an older guy, that stuff only works for guys in their 20’s or 30’s
- I’m from a foreign country, women are different here
- That only works on certain girls, the woman I want is different
- I’m too short / fat / ugly / insert random excuse and girls won’t be attracted to me no matter what I do
And I get it, because I’ve been a professional coach for nearly 2 decades now. Believe me, I’ve heard every excuse in the book. It’s human nature to think YOUR situation is different… and that what works for other people, won’t apply to you.
But here’s the thing:
The methods, mindsets and techniques that I advocate are all built on universal principles. A man who is confident, masculine, attentive, funny, and not afraid to express his true personality and desires is attractive to women… Whether he’s white, black, Asian, 18, 58, skinny, fat, or anything else. The traits that make a man attractive transcend any of those physical or racial boundaries.
So if you have a tendency to look at something and find reasons for it NOT to work for you… I want to encourage you to reframe things until you can see the universal principle and how it can apply to you.
For example, if there’s a story about a guy who successfully meets a woman in a bar… Instead of thinking there’s nothing to be learned from it because you don’t go to bars, focus on what he did right and how you could apply it in a different environment.
If there’s a story about Tinder or some other dating app that you don’t use… Take the lesson from it and see if you can use it in real life. (Or bite the bullet and actually try some of these apps — the results can be amazing, even for older men.) And if there’s something you really believe won’t work for you, for whatever reason… Here’s my challenge to you:
Go find out one way or the other.
That means actually go out and try it and see for yourself how women respond to it. I’d rather get an email from a guy asking for help after trying something that didn’t work out successfully… Instead of an email describing why something won’t work, without even testing it. It’s always easy to find excuses not to try something out…
Because that way you don’t have to take any action and put yourself out there. But that’s also what’ll keep you stuck exactly where you are, getting the same results you’ve always gotten. So if you’d like different results, you need to take different action. And for most guys, that starts with learning How To Become A Man Women Want.
This is my flagship program that gives you the core foundations you need to naturally meet, attract and date the women you desire.
Because it’s built on the universal principles of what women find attractive, it means it works regardless of your personal situation. There are countless success stories from guys of every age… across multiple continents… with different looks and income levels. That’s why any limiting belief you have, I can assure you another man has overcome the same obstacle. And the one common trait all these men with success stories share is they made the decision to try something new.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,