In this article, I am going to give you the most important way to improve with women…
And it's completely counterintuitive, however, it may be the reason you've been rejected.
It's called your inner balance point.
I want you to think of it like you're walking on a straight line from one building to another.
This is your composure and how you respond to tough situations and challenges.
In order to improve with women, you must understand this concept of frame control.
So let's talk about what frame control is and how it helps you improve with women.
A Calm Man Improves With Women Fast
Frame control is such a deep concept that I can honestly write ten articles on how you can use it to your advantage and turn women on.
However, I can easily simplify this for you and make it much more easier for you to understand.
Frame control is the underlying context of all interactions.
In this article we are going deeper in to frame control.
So I need you to do me a favor and peel back the layers of your reality. Why?
Because in order for you to understand this concept, you must have a strong open mind.
The way I am describing frame control here is how calm you are while under social discomfort.
The thing that a lot of guys do is thinking that you have to be a stubborn ass to demonstrate a strong frame.
Honestly, I recommend that you not take your stubbornness too far. It will get you blown out of all social interactions.
Because I honestly describe it in that book best on why trying to be stubborn never gets you results with women.
In fact, a calm man that can withstand social discomfort will always attract women effortlessly.
A State of Reaction is a Weak Frame
I have to briefly touch upon this because it's what most men with impulses struggle with.
If you are in a consistent reactive state of mind, my friend, you will not attract women.
A masculine man that demonstrates a masculine frame is nonreactive.
In fact, I've said before that you must be disagreeable with women in this article.
However, it's very important that you are nonreactive when you are disagreeable with women. Why?
Because when you're disagreeable from a place of reactivity, you are going to cause arguments.
A Strong Frame Is Always Nonreactive
I have to tell you why you must remain nonreactive in all social situations:
- When you're reactive, women hate it.
- Rage is a sign of weakness and insecurity.
- Anger is derivative of fear and worry.
Now that you know that you must be nonreactive, it's time for you to develop a masculine frame.
Now you might be wondering, isn't having a masculine frame being toxic?
My friend, I recommend that you stop believing what society, teachers and friends will tell you about that.
Because I'm not going in to details on why your past programming from society, teachers, and authorities have fucked up your world view.
Having a masculine frame is simply put is accepting your reality and yourself fully.
If You Want To Improve With Women, Stop Living in Reaction Mode
My friend, this may be the most important tip that I can give you in this entire article.
You have to learn to accept challenges that come up in your life and respond in a way that is higher value.
I can guarantee you that if you are in a relationship, and you receive bad news of you losing your job, or you have a negotiation deal go bad, your woman is WATCHING YOU.
She wants to know that you can be secure in yourself during a tough situation. If you take it like a man, then you will absolutely skyrocket her attraction towards you.
Your Inner Balance Point Must Be Immovable
You cannot be swayed by a women's tests. You cannot let you losing a job make you want to lash out.
You also cannot let a woman breaking up with you keep you from living your true purpose.
Because this is what having a masculine mindset is all about.
It is about YOU to stay on your inner balance point when life throws shit at you.
I want you to be immovable and grounded while life throws out challenges at you.
Stay on your composure my friend. Don't react so quickly where you feel like a victim of circumstance.
A higher status man that can stay true to his values and his boundaries can stay on his inner balance point.
When You Get Mad, Hold Yourself Back From Snapping
I cannot stress this enough. If you ever have someone piss you the fuck off, and you want to snap, you must hold yourself back.
The more you hold yourself back, your power is never given away. I want to say that one more time.
When you hold yourself back from snapping, you don't give away your power.
Not everyone is going to like you, so it's best that you accept that and don't get mad about it.
Accept the fact that there will be challenges in your life.
Accept the fact that not all women will find you attractive
Because holding on to what one woman thinks of you, that gives away your power to her.
She just influenced you in to having a shitty day. Congratulations, that's your reality my friend.
How you stop letting things affect you is by YOU holding yourself back.
It would be wise of you to get to know your emotional side so that you can monitor how you react to everyone.
When You're Nonreactive, You Improve With Women
It's time for you to be nonreactive at all times. Why? Because I'm certain you want a hot woman and the way you attract them is by being nonreactive.
I recommend that you first start working on the following:
- Get to know your emotional side and monitor it closely
- Be aware of your anger when it's triggered
- Hold yourself back from snapping at ANYONE
This is how to stay on your inner balance point. And it's a part of frame control (obviously it's not all of it because there are many levels to frame control).
You will see success with women because their opinions of you don't fucking matter.
So my friend, do yourself a favor and apply everything I've just gave you if you want to improve with women.
Frame Awareness is the Secret To Improving With Women
This may be the most important tip to truly staying on your inner balance point.
And that is becoming frame aware.
Think of The Matrix, once you observe social interactions, you realize that there is someone always in control.
This is good news for you. Why is it good news for you?
Because now you are realizing when other people are dominating interactions, you can see who is in the power position.
That is what being frame aware is. You notice how other people try hard to control the frame.
Let me give you a big tip before you talk to a woman.
Determine your frame before you enter the interaction and try less to have a strong frame.
When you try less, you develop the “screw it” mentality, which means you are now non needy.
That means you are outcome independent. It's counterintuitive on how it works.
But that is literally how it works.
I want to bring this full circle. If you have ever been rejected, it's time for you to stay on your inner balance point and don't snap back to someone that tests you.
Particularly a very hot woman.
Don't have the mentality that “all women are rude.” Because it's simply not true. I can guarantee you that if a woman tests you by being rude, it's just a protection shield.
They are always approached by men constantly. And they are screening out insecure guys that easily snap. Because having an impulse issue is exactly that, it screams insecurity.
Instead, I want you to stay on your inner balance point. The most important reason to stay on your inner balance point is because you are essentially becoming independent of everyone's good and bad opinions of you.
And that means women will see that, and they will immediately see you as the man women want. I want you to become more carefree and give less fucks, it's a quality all alpha males have.
With everything I taught you today, I guarantee you that you'll see progress in your social life.
I appreciate you my dude. You're getting better and better with women every day.
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Peace out you handsome stud.