I love when men share their success stories with me about women. Especially when I find out the reason for their success is that they used my super easy, fool-proof approach technique. Here’s what happened recently with one of my clients:
The best part of my job is getting to read all the testimonials from guys who practice what I preach. You have no idea how rewarding I find it when someone tells me how much his life has changed… not just with women, but in how he feels about himself. So I asked one of these recent success stories if he could share exactly what’s made everything click for him. Here is what he said:
“Honestly, it’s OSA. Also just how I view myself and I’ve taken women off the pedestal without disrespecting them. I also make fun of myself while complimenting them…sly smirk comes naturally to me and If I see a woman I’m even slightly attracted to and have something to say with a window of appropriate opportunity I do it.
“And every interaction I have I do a self review and get more comfortable. It’s awesome. I’m really just being myself. I’ve trusted what you say because your a beautiful, intelligent and sexy woman and when I implement what you say I have success which grows my confidence. I don’t have any expectation when I approach and as I’m getting more comfortable I’m able to banter and carry on a conversation more and if it’s not clicking or i can tell she’s not into i politely bail without judgment to her or myself.”
Seriously, I LOVE when a man has this kind of attitude to women and dating… Where he can let go of all his hangups and just go out there and be himself while having fun with women. This is truly what it means to be in the moment and not give a f*ck about the outcome. And I’m not the only one that loves it. Women are magnetically attracted to men who have this kind of playful energy and vibe. It’s so refreshing compared to all the other men who are either super serious, overly anxious, or just stare and don’t even talk to us at all.
Oh, and in case you’re wondering what ‘OSA’ refers to at the start of his message…
This is my acronym for the method I teach on how to approach women. It stands for observe, share, ask… and it’s the simplest and most effective technique to connect with women in a genuine and authentic way.
If you’d like to find out exactly how it works, as well as everything you’ll ever need to successfully approach women, check out The Approach Blueprint here.
Now, there are a couple of key mindsets mentioned above that I want you to take note of. The first is that he approaches women whenever he’s even slightly attracted and there’s an opportunity to do so. This is a huge part of having success with women… Understanding that there are countless opportunities staring you in the face every day. And that the more you practice approaching and having conversations, the better at it you’ll get.
Which brings us to the second key mindset. If my student senses she’s not into it, he politely bails with no judgement towards himself or her. So many guys never get anywhere because the thought of a random woman not being super receptive just destroys them. But sometimes that’s just out of your control. She could be running late for work… in a happy relationship… not into men at all… her dog just died… or any number of other reasons as to why she’s not in the mood to talk. Instead of judging her and thinking, man, what a bitch… Or judging yourself, I’m such a loser, no woman would ever want me… Just realize that sometimes an approach won’t lead anywhere, and it doesn’t have to be an indictment on either of you.
When you give yourself permission to take action without needing a specific result… it frees you up from a lot of the anxiety and fear that holds you back. Plus, it gives you an aura of confidence and indifference that we find sexy in a man. So when you internalize these two mindsets… As well as use the OSA formula to make approaching women easy and fun…
It’s why my students who have been through The Approach Blueprint are having the time of their life with women every day… Without having to change who they are or do anything weird, complicated or sleazy. So if this natural and fun way of meeting and attracting women sounds like a good fit for you, click here for all the details and let’s make it happen together.
The last female friend you’ll ever need,