While a man may think that a woman wants to argue there are some times she may have another reason in mind. A woman may argue to get in the mood. Strong emotions increase the endorphins in the body. This can lead to better sex. She may just be trying to get a man aroused.
So I was talking to one of my girlfriends yesterday, and she shared something I think you’ll get a lot out of. She was telling me how she’s been having a lot of arguments with the guy she’s been dating for just over a year.
When I asked why, she confessed something that would shock most guys:
She goes out of her way to start arguments with him.
Can you guess why? It’s because it leads to hot make-up sex between them. She told me the sex is ten times better after they’ve been arguing than it is normally.
And that’s because arguments lead to a lot of strong EMOTIONS, even if they are mainly negative.
It evokes passion and feeling, which are crucial for us to enjoy truly great sex.
The problem with my friend’s boyfriend is he doesn’t know how to make her feel that passion and emotion. So she starts all those arguments with him to manufacture those feelings herself.
Now, I’m not saying this is something I’d recommend for a healthy relationship… But it does illustrate how important emotions are if you want to turn a woman on.
There have even been studies that proved a strong link between fear and sexual arousal. And it makes sense.
Fear is a strong emotion that gets the endorphins running. The same as when you feel really turned on by someone.
This doesn’t mean you should frighten women or start fights to try and turn us on…
But you do need to know how to engage our emotions.
Because that’s the #1 key to triggering our sexual arousal.
Unfortunately, most guys really struggle with this. And to be fair, it’s not something they’re ever really taught.
However it’s surprisingly simply to learn how to do… And hands down I think the easiest way to create these kind of emotions is with banter.
That’s because good banter bypasses the logical brain and goes straight to our emotional core.
It triggers a gut reaction that fires up our emotions…
Unlike the typical conversations we have with most men, which fall flat.
And I know from experience that any man is capable of learning how to banter in a powerfully attractive way.
All you need to do is follow a simple step-by-step blueprint…
It shows you a simple framework that’ll make bantering feel like second nature…
This is the fastest way I know of to create the gut-level attraction and sexual tension that we find irresistible…
The last female friend you’ll ever need,