I just got an awesome email from one my clients with an example of what to say to a woman, when she has rejected you online.
You definitely want to try this on the next woman who rejects you (hopefully with my help that never happens, but just in case).
You can use a variation of this on women you meet in real life or online. The example below is an online example and it’s awesome.
I just have to share a little success with you because your direction made this happen.
I was writing to this girl online and I stupidly was asking her boring, general questions. This is before I learned how to do it right.
She had been giving me one word “not interested answers” and then she just abruptly disappeared. So I sent this comment to her: “thanks for talking. just FYI I am sure there are a lot of creeps out there & you’re an attractive women, but I’m NOT a game player. just wanted to get to know you a little more (not trying to get you into bed). Let me know when you’re online next time maybe we can talk like real people. If not interested in talking just let me know you won’t hurt my feelings. (besides you are a little too old 🙂 Have a good day.”
I instantly I got a pop-up message that said OK let’s talk online now! And we did.
That was the first phone number, positive reaction I’d gotten from a woman in years.
Thanks so much for your help.- J
LOVE getting emails like that.
The reason why J’s response got such a reaction from this woman was because it was direct, firm and authentic.
J, stated his intentions and also called this woman out instead of trying to placate to her. He didn’t seem worried about ruffling feathers or losing her entirely.
It was bold and it made J sound like he was a man that knew what he wanted and wasn’t going to settle for anything less.
Super sexy. PLUS he teased her about not being that good looking. I loved that part.