Video below shows an awesome example of how to flirt and banter with women. But first read about my night last night…
So the other night out at a lounge, my friends Mike, Eric, and I were sitting down in a moderately busy lounge when we noticed a tall, lean, Angelina Jolie look-alike stroll into the bar.
And within seconds after THAT we all watched and had a good laugh as swarms of men took their turns to try and talk to her (all of which she turned down without saying a word).
My friend Mike demanded that one of them should go over and introduce themselves, certain as all hell that that's all they needed to do, was be friendly and say who they were…
“‘Hi, my name is Mike!' is all you gotta say!” he insisted.
But I knew better.
I told him “HI” can certainly work if delivered correctly by a man that this woman was already attracted to but it would not cut it in this situation. A.K.A I noticed that this girl had not given him a single indicator that she was attracted to him.
So in this situation, that's DEFINITELY not the way to go…
Eric then demanded that one of them go over and tell her, “You're the prettiest girl in this bar.”
WRONG AGAIN, Eric!
The guys were pretty fed up with me at this point and asked what the hell would work then considering she turned down all 7 of the guys that had approached her at this point.
Before I answered them, I scanned the lounge really quickly and noticed that all the girls in there were wearing really short tight dresses while our girl in question was wearing a
very casual, loose fitting blouse with a pair of jeans.
Then I said use O.S.A (my method for starting conversations with women that you can learn about in my program how to become a man women want) and say something like “I noticed you are the ONLY girl in here not dressed in a saran-wrap… and I really like that.”
Then I went onto explain what made this statement better than the ones they came up with:
At this point, “Hi my name is Mike” won't work because she doesn't know who you are and doesn't CARE to know who you are!
There are floods of men coming and introducing themselves… and her guard is UP. Doesn't mean you can't get it down, but that's more work for you.
“You're the prettiest girl in the bar,” is an OBVIOUS attempt at flattery and is something ANY guy can say to ANY girl it's inauthentic and overused.
The truth is she doesn't wanna be seen as just ANY girl… no girl does.
“You're the only one in here wearing x,y, or z… AND I LIKE IT” is something you absolutely CANNOT say to any other girl because it's your reaction to her in this moment… it's genuine and it's something so hard to find these days!
As soon as I finished explaining this, Mike and Eric were silent… and within seconds they both fought to get up and talk to the girl (Mike ended up winning).
And sure enough, we watched as the girl not only giggled and blushed at Mike's comment but also turned around to face him and talk very excitedly throughout their entire conversation… all ending up with Mike getting her number while every guy watched in dumbfounded disbelief.
So what I want you to take away from this is that you have to say something to her that you CANNOT say to any other woman, be it something about what she's wearing, what she's doing in the moment, or an experience that you are both in. A.K.A a unique observation.
Whatever it is, as long as your comment comes from something about the current moment, it's genuine, authentic, and it's gonna make her feel special and INSTANTLY attracted to you within seconds.
After that night, I came home and found a clip on tv to give you the PERFECT example of a guy using this tip in action.
Watch how a guy uses this simple trick at the grocery store.
So go out and use this on the next woman you find too insanely gorgeous for words and let me know how it goes! 😉
NOTE: you may need to turn your volume up or on to hear this video
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I have another great example here of how to flirt and banter that I found AMAZING!! I'm not a lesbian but I totally would become one for this woman. Be it a man or woman saying this, it would work.