Men may often be afraid to walk up to a woman that they find attractive. They may not know what to say to her or have the confidence needed to approach her. These tips will help a man go up to a woman and leave with a date.
Listen: I’ve been doing this for YEARS. And I’ve heard every question under the sun. But…
One I always get that seems to ESCAPE most men is this. “Marni, how do I approach a woman without feeling creepy or weird about it?”
You see, most men WANT to approach. (That’s why I have a whole program dedicated to it)
That’s not what they’re afraid of. They just don’t want to come off as THAT guy.
What if I gave you a roadmap to approaching any woman, anywhere…
WITHOUT having to feel like a creep? Now first, I have to give you a warning.
DON’T USE THIS BEFORE QUARANTINE ENDS IN YOUR AREA.
Lol. 🙂 Let’s dive in!
Step 1. Approach her confidently.
When you walk up to her, I want you to pretend you’re a famous actor.
You’re doing her the favor by taking time out of YOUR day to talk to her.
Usually YOU’RE the one getting approached.
That’s the mindset you should adopt.
It’ll give you unstoppable confidence. I promise 🙂
Confidence can NEVER come off as creepy.
Step 2. Have a reason to approach her.
This is a big one.
Let her know why you decided to approach her.
Did you find her pretty? Did she have nice style?
Flattery to open up the conversation ALWAYS disarms strangers.
At the very least, you’ll have a pleasant conversation with someone you paid a compliment to.
Creepy? Never. Sweet? DEFINITELY.
Step 3. Introduce yourself.
Always always always introduce yourself.
Give her your name and ask for hers.
Don’t forget to use it in conversation.
The most beautiful word to any woman is her name.
Step 4. Keep the conversation going with genuine questions.
Ask her about herself, what she’s got going on today.
If you approach her at a park, ask her if she comes often.
This gives the conversation FUEL to go places.
No awkward silences included!
Step 5. If awkward, ACKNOWLEDGE IT.
If you’re nervous, women can always tell.
The best thing to do is to admit it and bring it up.
“I’m a little nervous, I’ve never done this before”.
Letting her know you’re authentic and not a “douche” is not only endearing but ATTRACTIVE.
Always be 100% transparent.
Step 6. Take the next step!
Always take initiative and engage her with a CALL TO ACTION.
“Hey let me get your number, we’ll go for drinks this weekend.”
It lets her know your intentions and allows you to progress things further.
How AWESOME and SIMPLE was that?!
If you loved this and want to know how to REALLY become a MASTER at approaching women… or just want to get over the initial “anxiety” of it…
I can’t recommend my Approach Blueprint enough:
It’s jam-packed with gold.
Tootin’ my own horn, but when it’s true you have to!
I’m always rooting for you.
Your Wing Girl,