Have you ever noticed how ‘bad boys’ tend to get lots of attention to women and nice guys don’t? Here is the ONE REASON why that’s true, and how you can use it to your advantage without being a total jerk.
You’ve probably heard the phrase, opinions are like assholes. Everybody’s got one. But here’s a different spin on it that’ll help you with women:
Assholes EXPRESS opinions… and women love them for it.
Let me explain what I mean.
The truth is, while everybody may have an opinion… not everyone is confident enough to express it. This is the case with a lot of men, particularly the ‘nice guy’. They’re afraid of saying the wrong thing or rocking the boat in anyway, so they keep their opinions to themselves.
From a woman’s point of view, we find this incredibly boring.
Assholes on the other hand have strong opinions, and they don’t care who knows it. And even if we don’t agree with them, at least it evokes some PASSION and EMOTION during a conversation.
Take a simple question we might ask, like what’s your favorite move of all time? The nice guy won’t risk saying something we disagree with. So he’ll usually say something like, well I like so many movies, so I really couldn’t choose one.
The problem with an answer like that is it gives us nothing to react to. We can’t excitedly agree with you… or playfully protest against your choice. Compare that to an asshole, who is more likely to say something like, Die Hard is the greatest movie of all time. And if you disagree, I’m never inviting you over for movie night.
If that’s said playfully and with a smirk, it’ll do more to create attraction than the nice guy’s response could ever hope for. This is the power of voicing a strong opinion.
It shows you’re confident enough to put yourself out there and not care about being judged. And it also taps into different emotions that we’re able to relate to and connect on. Now, in case you’re thinking that you don’t want to be an asshole to get women, don’t worry.
There’s nothing about stating your opinions like this that actually makes you an asshole. It’s just that guys who are assholes naturally do this without even thinking about it.
So you can get all the attraction-boosting power of this and still be a good guy at the same time.
You also don’t need to wait for us to ask you a question before you offer your opinion. A simple thing you can do is start using the phrases ‘I love’ and ‘I hate’ when giving an opinion. (However make sure you don’t just rant about what you hate or you’ll come off as super negative and a killjoy.)
Try steering clear of words like ‘good’, ‘okay’ and ‘fine’ when giving an opinion. These are all beige, middle of the road descriptions that elicit no emotion. Don’t be afraid to show how you REALLY feel about something, without holding anything back.
One caveat to this is I’d avoid talking about religion or politics. The reason being that many people are strongly attached to their views on each, and an innocent conversation can quickly escalate into a full-blown argument.
Instead, keep the topics light and fun. Movies, music, hobbies, travel, and pop culture all safe topics to give strong opinions on. Because even if you disagree with her, it’s not like you’re challenging her personal beliefs or deeper values.
Now, this whole way of communicating is just one example of how to be the man that women are naturally attracted to.
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This is why so many guys now say meeting and dating women is fun. And not the scary or stressful experience it used to be. They’re no longer faking it or hiding anything. They’re being real and genuine… and women can’t get enough of them.
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