What do I talk to women about?
There is no wrong conversation to have with a woman. Well maybe except how you are a big fan of XXX rated porn. But even that, with the right woman, may be a perfectly normal conversation.
The thing is that you must stop thinking about what SHE wants to talk about. Think about what you want to talk about and go from there. Throughout your life you have had many conversations before right? In fact I am sure most of them have been very successful and even easy! That means you already have the skills you are just freaking out because you THINK that conversation with women needs to be different. It doesn't!
The only thing you need to be careful of is that you are present in the conversation. That means that you are listening, engaging and present. Not off in never never land, fixating on whether or not she is into you.
One quick tip that I believe every man should know.
There is no right “Thing” to say to a woman. There is however, a right “way” to say it to them.
It's all about what is behind the statement. I could have 10 men lined up in front of me, saying the exact same Kiss Ass Tried and Tested Pick Up Line. BUT I will feel a different reaction towards each man.
Women want to feel comfort, confidence and strength in character when they are talking to a man.
To warm up your conversation tools, I have a mini assignment for you.
I want you to write down 10 questions which can be anything from “So are you from around here?” to “What was your favorite toy when you were a child?”. Up to you. Then go PRACTICE these questions. Practice at home in front of the mirror, in public with live human beings and on real women. The more you practice and use your conversation tool the easier conversation will come to you. The more you do it the more natural it will feel and the more automatic it will become.
To help others, post some of your questions. This way you can get feedback and also help others who may not be able to come up with questions.
Remember, these questions have to work for you.