Just got an email from a past client, that made me so smile. So I wanted to share it because I think it will resonate for you.
Hi Marni. Last week I went to this bar in midtown. When I walked in to this bar there were two very attractive women sitting there. I sat next to them and few minute later I started talking to them. We talked for about 2 hours.
During this time there were a lot of guy that came over to talk to them but the girls showed little interest in these guys and quickly got them to go away. To be honest, they were all good looking so I'm not sure why the girls kept getting rid of them, but they did. Any way, at the end of the night the two hot girls and I were walking out of this bar and one really good looking guy asked me,” dude, how did u make this girl get out this bar with you? Honestly I would like to get the secret” the girl overheard his comment and butted in and told this guy,” you need personality”. Then we walked off together.
I felt so awesome when I heard that. Marni last time I talked to you, you said the magic words to me that have really stuck and I think they are the secret this guy was looking for “Women are just people. The more you just live your life for you and not give a SH*T about an outcome, the better results you'll get!” Since then I've talking to so many beautiful women, just by approaching the ones I want and treating them like regular people.
This email put a huge smile on my face. I had worked with this guy for about a month and this email showed me that all our work had sunk in and he got it!! He now understands what makes you win with women 🙂