In the past, coming up with an opening line and something to say can be a daunting task.
So daunting that choosing to forgo the approach seems like a better option. But I know that because you read my blog and you may have my step by step systems, that approaching and approach anxiety is no longer an issue for you 😉
But an issue that still may exist for you is “what the hell do I say next?” or “how to I keep the conversation going after I say hello?”
Which is why I made you this video all about how to keep the conversation going after you say hello. Watch it, put it to practice and you will see how your conversations with women will change!
I want to tell you a story. Back in 2008, I did a bootcamp in Toronto. On this bootcamp I had a client who would ask me tons of questions, which I love. BUT he also did something that I hated. He never acknowledged my responses.
Meaning that he would ask a question like:
“Marni, how do I get out of the friend zone”
and I would give my response and put all my love and energy to it…
And then he’d look at me, nod and then ask another question.
I can not tell you how much I hated that. Were my answers bad? Did he not agree? And if so, why does he keep answering my opinion.
Every time this would happen, I’d get deflated to the point that I didn’t want to talk to him anymore. And then I remembered “I’m his wing girl. I’m meant to tell him this stuff because he’s probably doing this to other women.”
So I told him and he was in shock. He didn’t realize what he had been doing and was relieved to find out what I had told him.
That’s when I came up with conversation threading and it’s importance. Because it’s sooooooo important. So is LCA (Learn, confirm, appreciate) but that’s a whole other topic that I go into great detail on in section 3 of how to become a man women want.
I cannot stress enough how important it is for you to talk to women like this. Doing it will:
1. Make coming up with conversation SOOO much easier
2. Make your conversations appear to flow naturally so she feels a connection with you
3. Make you seem like more of a leader when talking to women
To learn more about conversation threading and OSA and LCA, my other tools and methods used for talking to women so that they feel attraction for you, check out how to become a man women want by clicking here.