Have you ever been wondering what women want you to know about sex? Every man wants to be a rock star in bed. Every woman wants to be a rock star in bed too. But only a few know what really gets a woman off and I want you to be one of those few men.
That's why I want to show you nine things women wish guys knew about sex. Once you know these secrets, you will be able to drive any woman crazy in bed and keep her begging for more.
In other words, she will become sexually addicted to you and lust after you like never before. Believe me, you are going to find this extremely useful.
We're Not as Fragile as You Think
Many guys are afraid to be aggressive in bed because they think it'll be too much for us but we're not as fragile as you think. As I said, if you're with a woman, ask her if she likes it rough. Ask her if she wants a little bit more… you know, dominant. Some women are going to say yes and if she does, don't be afraid to show a little bit more aggression. Tuck her hair, spank her butt, and thrust her against the wall.
Most of us find this really hot and if it does turn out to be a little too aggressive to her, ask her to let you know. In that way, you can adjust the intensity so she doesn't get injured. I'm not saying like be really aggressive with her but obviously, you can take it up a notch.
If You Want a BJ, Make It Super Easy For Us
Look, some women genuinely hate going down on men. I know many of them and there's nothing you can do about that but the majority of us will be up for it if you make it easy for us. I for one like doing it if it's made easy for me and making it easy mainly involves three things. Take a shower, manscape, and use some powder down there to keep things fresh. All right.
Oral sex is repulsive to women when you have poor hygiene. A dirty penis is not fun for anybody so you need to make sure everything is neat, clean, and appealing. If you do, she's not going to mind going down on you. Plus, here's a little pro-tip. Compliment her when she's doing the job. It's a job, right? It'll make her feel great and she'll be willing to do it more often if you give good feedback
In terms of what to say, say something like: “Oh wow, you're amazing.” “Oh yeah, that's my girl.” Can do the trick. Like just appreciate what she's done. In fact, even if you just moan a little and let her know the effect she's having on you, that could be enough as well. The point is to show your appreciation and she's going to come back to do it again. But if you just lie there, should be like: “I wasn't good at it, I won't do it again.”
We Can Get Too Sensitive
Women can get extremely sensitive to a point that something which felt good at first can now feel painful for us. So this is very common with fingering. So many guys just get in there and almost start to mimic a jackhammer, right? And then they keep going and going and going same spot. That's not very good.
After a certain level of intensity, things can get kind of painful for her. So ask her to let you know when that happens and adjust your intensity accordingly. Also rubbing her clit long after she has climax does not feel good. I know some guys that do that and it's not she'll let you know but it's not fun. It's a bad idea.
What Works in Porn Doesn't Work in Real Life
So I've talked about this before. Adult movies are mostly fantasy and it doesn't necessarily depict reality. And that means stuff like super hard fingering, finger banging, deep throating, and shooting your load in her face aren't things most women prefer. If you're learning things solely from adult content, you need to stop. So the best way to please a woman is to ask her what she likes. Yes, some women might even like the stuff you find in those x-rated videos, but to make sure, you just gotta ask.
It Takes Longer For Us to Orgasm
It takes much longer for the woman to orgasm than it takes the average man. In fact, some women can even take 30 minutes or more to have a real orgasm. That means you need to pace yourself, right? Don't just get in there and start plowing her. You got to take it slow and steady. I talk about roller coasters all the time. You have to use some foreplay, kiss her, touch her, tease her, explore her body, and you want to get her as turned on as possible before you go in, before you penetrate her.
That way she'll have the highest chance of achieving an orgasm and she may not. Should still enjoy it but she may not but she will thank you. Also, if she doesn't orgasm through penetration, do not worry, it's very common for women. Extremely common for women.
In fact, the majority of women do not orgasm through penetration and in that case, oral action is your best friend. Your fingers are your best friend. Guys who are good at pleasing a woman orally or with their fingers are the best lovers.
Ask Us About Trying New Things
There is no reason to hide your fantasies from the women that you are with. Trust me, we want to know what you're into. We're very curious about it and if you ask us, we might just be willing to try it out. Especially if we really like you. Moreover, even if your girl says no, it is not the end of the world. You can try something else, right? You can maybe downgrade it a little bit. It builds your way up and you should always try new stuff from time to time.
Variety keeps the passion alive in your love life. The worst thing you can do is make your bedroom activities boring and routine. That's when sexual dissatisfaction sets in and a lot of the time, when a woman leaves all of a sudden or loses interest or even cheats on a man, a lot of the time, it can be from sexual dissatisfaction. That's part of it. So explore new things in the bedroom.
We Don't Want to be Rammed Hard
I know you guys feel manly and powerful when you go deep and hard into vaginas. But trust me, most women do not like that. It can actually be really painful for a girl when you're ramming her as hard as possible especially if you're bigger than her. It can cause injuries. Plus if you go super hard, you can overstimulate yourself and finish too quickly and that's not good.
And that's why the best thing you can do is start fairly slow and amp up the intensity gradually just like fingering. Tell the woman that you're with or ask them that you're with what feels best for her and adjust yourself accordingly.
If You Can't Find The Clitoris, Ask Us
Stimulating the clit is the ultimate key to an orgasm but many guys have a hard time finding it. I get it, it's a little pee in there someone's hard to find. We understand it's kind of hidden right under the hood. It's not there. So we have no shame about asking us about it. Women will not judge you negatively for it. Maybe for a split second but once you start doing things and it feels good, we'll forget about it.
The truth is if anything will be pleased to know that you care enough to ask, right? It shows us that you really want to make sure that we're pleased and who doesn't like a lover who wants that, right?
If You're Done, It Doesn't Mean We Are As Well
So look, if you really want to be an unforgettable lover to your lady, if you want to be the best she has ever had and the man she wants to keep coming back to again and again and again, don't stop as soon as you finish. Yes at times, it might be okay but you should always make a solid effort to finish off your girl before you end it. My guy does and I kind of like that. Sometimes, it just won't happen and that is okay. But give it your best shot. That effort alone will make you a hero in her eyes and she will be more excited about it.
All right, that concludes our list of secrets for sex for women today but I want to leave you with one last thing. For us women, intercourse is more than just a physical activity. It is an emotional one as well and we need to feel we have an emotional connection with you in order to get sexual.
In fact, the reason so many guys miss out on sex or lose women in relationships is because they failed to create and maintain a strong emotional connection with women and in one of my programs called Beyond Attraction, I explain exactly how to build these emotional bonds and keep it strong.
I reveal exactly what to say to a woman to form a real unbreakable connection with her so she completely devotes herself to you and you alone. In fact, these communication secrets and scripts are so powerful that they can force women unconsciously to think about you nonstop and make them crave to be with you sexually and that's because as the name suggests. These secrets help you go to a level beyond attraction and form the type of emotional bond which pretty much gets a woman addicted to you.
Now, if you'd like to check out these powerful communication techniques and scripts like literal scripts yourself, just have a look at Beyond Attraction. I'm sure you've never seen anything like this before. It is truly groundbreaking stuff.