So you had a good first date and maybe even fooled around a little, and then she went all radio silent on you? It’s unfortunate, but it happens. If you want to know why it happens and take steps to guard against it, READ THIS.
One of my dearest friends Joe came to me with a scary ghost story recently. And no silly, not the “bump in the night” kind. I’m talking about the “I will text you back in 7 hours ” kind. Most guys are more scared of the latter these days…
Anyways – he told me he’d been seeing this girl recently and he was REALLY into her.
She was pretty, sexy and they clicked on every level. He took her on a couple dates, they hit it off. He even ended up fooling around with her. And then he tells me things got… weird.
He dropped her off at home after a great date… got a goodnight kiss AND on top of that… he got a 😘 goodnight text when he got home.
That’s not the weird part. What happened next happens to most guys and they get completely blind-sided.
The next morning he texts her the usual: “Rise and shine princess!”. And she texts him the worst word in the human language… the one most men dread and fear…
Where was the cute “good morning handsome” he usually received? Where was the silly GIFs she’d always send? His heart sank.
And to make things worse… it didn’t get any better for poor Joe. The next few days almost ripped him apart as she was distant… cold… and uninterested.
What happened? Why did her attraction to him do a complete 180?
I know I know… as you’re reading through this your stomach is sinking into your butt. You’ve been through this, and it HURTS.
Let’s take a look at why this happens to begin with:
The answer is so obvious it might hit you right in the head. The initial INTEREST she had in you is either on the way out or… GONE.
Where most men seem to mess up is that they think the ATTRACTION is out the door.
Now, I know you’re thinking: “Marni, what the heck is the difference?”
I want you to think of it this way.
Attraction is what got you in the door… but INTEREST is what keeps her coming back for more and more.
If you don’t find a way to keep her on her toes and completely under your spell… you’ll get ghosted so hard you’ll think you’re in an Annabelle sequel.
You have to put yourself in the shoes of an attractive woman. Do you think you’re the only guy at any given moment that’s texting her? Trying to get her attention?
If she’s even a little bit attractive then you can bet your butt that she’s got OPTIONS.
To get her to chase you… you have to captivate her so much that every one of those other options sucks in comparison. You make her feel different.
I hope that gave you a little bit of a ‘braingasm’.
I’m going to show you exactly how to build that interest layer by layer. How you can charm her so she’s DYING to text YOU.
Ouf this is good.
Oh and by the way, if you’re begging to know what my friend Joe used to get her on those first few thrilling dates to begin with… then you should check this out here: Click Here
Just make sure you follow through the whole thing to avoid his dilemma!
Your Wing Girl In Crime,