The Field Guide To Building A Cult Or Connecting With Women
All the way back in 1936, a book was published that would affect the future in ways the author most likely never saw coming.
Warren Buffett (who’s worth $72.3 billion dollars as I write this) has a certification that he completed this book hanging in his office right now.
Charles Manson read this book in prison and used what he learned to manipulate women into killing for him.
Whoever got their hands on this book, whether they knew it or not, could use it for great good or evil.
Some men used it to make fortunes, some to build a cult of women to kill for him and others to just… get laid.
The little book they used to do all of this was “How To Win Friends & Influence People” by Dale Carnegie.
Don’t let the innocent looking title fool you. This is powerful stuff and people like you and me have been using it since the ’30s to get people to do their bidding.
Now, while there are a million and one ways you can use this info for evil schemes… I’m going to show you (through example) how you can use it to connect with women on a deep level.
There were 6 main principles in the book and if you use them correctly and GENUINELY on a girl of your choosing, she’ll feel the deepest of connections with you.
I have to warn you though:
When I say “evil schemes” I’m not trying to be cute.
Cult leaders like Charles Manson have used these same techniques to completely and utterly dominate the minds of his followers.
So I urge you to only use this for good.
Let’s move along.
Say you’re on a first date with someone, you’re at a little cafe downtown.
She’s sitting across from you, sipping a white chocolate Mocha frap.
You want this date to work out so friggin’ bad. Your head is filled with a thousand thoughts at the same time.
Thinking of all the little tips and techniques you’ve picked up online. Maybe they’re MY tips and techniques.
She’s moving her mouth, but you can’t make out the words she’s saying. You’re too busy figuring out her next move.
You’ve got this glazed look in your eye like you’re spaced out… she notices.
She pauses after what she was saying and she’s looking straight at you.
“Is she waiting for me to something? Oh no… I barely listened to what she was saying… I was too busy thinking about my next move… did she say something about her dog? Shit…” you think to yourself.
You’re in deep trouble.
And this ladies and germs brings me to…
Principle 1: Be genuinely interested in her.
Say you had read this article BEFORE you went on the date and you were genuinely interested in what she had to say.
Rather than being stuck in your own head and worrying about your next “Ultra Ninja PUA Move 5000 TM”, you would have heard this:
“Aw look at that cute little puppy outside! I’ve always wanted a dog, but I’m so worried that I won’t have the time to care of it…”
“I could’ve sworn you were a cat person…” you reply.
Bam… you’ve got her laughing and you’ve built a connection with an inside joke you could use later.
And while we’re on the topic of laughing…
Principle 2: Smile.
What do you think drives a deeper connection if you would have made that cat lady joke:
- A) You say the joke and stare at her completely dead-pan. Now that I say it… I think it would come across as either insulting or creepy. No bueno!
- B) You say the joke but this time, you flash her a cocky and light-hearted smile. You come across as charming, light-hearted and sexy. Win!
The difference between being creepy/insulting and sexy/charming is a smile.
The next principle is a game-changer.
It’s so easy to do and almost insignificant but if you do it right… you’ll make her tingle and she won’t even know WHY.
With one word.
Principle 3: Remember that her name is to her the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
I’m not sure of the psychological reason behind it, but there’s something intoxicating about hearing someone say your name.
Don’t believe me?
Think of the last time someone said your name during sex.
It sent you right over the edge didn’t it?
I suspect that it has something to do with the ego and how we ALL like getting our ego rubbed.
Which leads me to the next principle:
Principle 4: Be a good listener. Encourage her to talk about herself.
One of the biggest problems guys face is that they don’t know how to make conversation with girls they don’t know.
“But what do I say?” is the #1 question I get from men. More than any other question by a long shot.
And it’s a devastatingly simple question to answer.
Let her talk about HERSELF by asking questions.
Women love talking about themselves, it’s no secret.
You open the door for them to do just that by asking questions.
Now make sure you don’t break Principle 1.
Ask questions about her that genuinely interest you, don’t fake it because she’ll know.
And even more so, you want to be actually listening to her and interested in what she has to say because you have to…
Principle 5: Talk in terms of her interests.
If you can follow Principle 4 & 5, you’ll never have a problem having deep and meaningful conversations with not just women but anybody you meet.
Relate back to what she’s talking about and add your 2 cents.
You’ll learn more about each other in a date or two than the average dating couple does in months.
And since you asked her questions that genuinely interest you about her, you’ll have no problem relating back to it.
This is the one-two punch and you’ll be like Muhammad Ali in the ring in his prime.
She’ll feel like she knew in a past life and the connection you’ll have with her will be deep and unshakeable.
Principle 6: Make her feel important and do it sincerely.
This one is easy to misinterpret.
Don’t put her on a pedestal and worship the ground she walks on.
Make her feel important by letting her earn your attention.
Give her sincere compliments, not shallow or over the top praises.
“You know Samantha…” he said with a smile.
“I’ve never met a girl as weird and charming as you.”
That’s the kind of thing girls read in books like 50 Shades of Grey… and they FAWN over it.
They want a man (<— important!) to make them feel like a woman.
They want to be in the fairy tale. You just have to make them the main character and you have to be the man they’re chasing after.
Well, that wraps up the 6 principles to building a deep connection with the girl of your choice.
I hope you use this for good and not to build a cult.
First time I’ve had to write that, Ha!
If you want to pick up the classic original book, you can buy it on Amazon here for cheap
Or if you want a course that’s built around principles like this then you should get the book AND my course How To Become A Man Women Want. Just Click here to read more.
Either way you can’t go wrong.