There are lots of things that can go wrong when you’re talking to a woman but few things can kill your chances faster than bad body language. Read this to learn the three biggest body language mistakes you could be making…
One of the easiest ways to blow your chances with a woman is with bad body language. Body language is critically important because it communicates so much about you… Yet I see so many guys unknowingly turning women off with their body language mistakes.
And it’s believed that body language is responsible for 55% of communication. Which means if you’re getting this wrong… You’re missing out on more than half of your opportunity to attract a woman. But when you nail your body language, it makes you more attractive and charismatic without any extra effort.
Unfortunately it’s not possible to give a full A-Z guide on body language over email… However here are 3 of the biggest body language mistakes men regularly make.
Just eliminating these three things will make a big difference in how women respond to you.
#1 Needy body language
You probably know that being needy is one of the biggest attraction-killers with women. It’s why you wouldn’t shower a woman with compliments and tell her you couldn’t live without her when you first meet her. Because that would make her run a mile.
Yet a lot of guys are sending a similar message with their body language, even if they’re not saying that with their words. There are a number of ways you could be displaying needy body language.
Invading her personal space is one example, unless she’s giving you positive signs to do so. I’ll see this happen and then the woman will take a step back to show she’s uncomfortable, but the guy will move forward into her space again. That feels very needy to us.
Another one is giving away 100% of your attention and interest if she’s not reciprocating. So if you’re facing her front on and constantly looking at her… but she’s turned away from you and only glancing at you now and then, you’re way more invested than she is and it also feels needy.
#2 Making yourself small
Another body language mistake is what I call making yourself appear small. This is when you don’t take up all of the space around you. It could be that you’re hunching over and not standing up tall… giving up the space above you.
Or you might be standing with your arms by your side, hands in pocket, and legs too close together… giving up the space by your side. Anything where you’re appearing smaller is usually a subconscious attempt to hide yourself.
It conveys a lack of confidence, either because you don’t want to be noticed or you don’t feel entitled to take up the space around you.
#3 Fidgety and nervous movements
When someone is nervous, it’s common that they’ll fidget or have fast and jerky movements. It’s because their body is looking for ways to get rid of that nervous energy. So when women see that kind of body language in a man, it makes us uncomfortable.
We realize he’s feeling nervous, and wonder why. Is it because he’s so uncomfortable talking to a woman he’s attracted to… Or is it because he’s got bad intentions and we should view him as a threat?
Either way, we don’t feel attracted or comfortable when it the presence of a man with this type of body language. The more relaxed, calm, and slow your movements are… the more confident and safe you’ll appear.
So there you go. Make sure you’re not committing these 3 body language sins and you’ll instantly be more attractive to women.
But if you want the complete blueprint on how to be attractive to women, that goes far beyond just body language…
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