Tips For Meeting Women and Combating Rejection: Get The Mentality of a Salesman

I always say that you have to have the mentality of a strong, confident, successful sales man to survive in the world of dating.

Why? Because dating and meeting women require you to have the ability to laugh in the face of rejection and realize that rejection is not a bad thing, it’s a great thing.  Seriously.

A couple of month’s back I spoke at the Global Pick Up Conference with about 25 other men.  Each of those men had a very similar story about how they rose to be a top expert in dating and meeting women. They attributed their success to their acceptance of rejection.

Their stories all went something like this:  “I used to be the horrible with women.  I didn’t get dates, I didn’t have sex and the only women whose attention I could get were a 6 or lower.  So I started practicing.  I went out every night, I approached trying a bunch of different styles and I figured out what worked for me.  I got rejected over and over and OVER again and then suddenly things started clicking.  Women started responding more favorably.  I was still getting rejected but I was also getting accepted.”

And their stories build from there.  They reveal how they didn’t learn to beat rejection but they learned to accept it, move past it and try again.  Very similar to what successful salesmen do.  Always remember the best of the best have all had failures.

I subscribe to several different online newspapers and I stumbled upon a great article this morning on Inc.com that talks about the psychology of successful people in sales.  It labels them as Happy Losers. I loved this idea and it sparked this post.

I suggest you go read this article cause it has some great points about how to handle rejection. To read the full article go to: Inc.com

Holiday Tip From Marni

I wanted to share a holiday tip with you about women.  It’s about how to understand The Help Me Eyes.

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How To Kiss A Girl

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How To Kiss A Girl

The first kiss! Oh the first kiss!!!  Such an amazing moment sprinkled with discomfort, awkwardness and fear.  It’s never going to be as picture perfect as either of you imagine it but in this 5 minute audio I recorded, I tell you how to kiss a girl in a fun and creative way.

It’s called The Whiskey Kiss and it’s a way to take the edge off when you are freaking about when and how to kiss a girl.

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Guide To A Successful First Date

First dates can be the most nerve racking experience.  You get stuck thinking of things to do on a date, where to go, how to behave.

But what if the next time you went on a first date you were well prepared and did not have to stress or think about any of the above? What if you always had a plan that would ensure you would always have a successful first date?

In this 5 minute audio below you will learn how to create a plan for a successful first date and always have things to do on a date! My friend Bill, from PUA Forums, discuss how to plan things to do on a date so that you can be stress free and enjoy the date! It’s a follow up to our first post together on how to talk to women.

Watch Bill in action as he walks you through how he makes the First Kiss fun and interesting to women. To see the  Whiskey Kiss Click Here!

#1 Secret To Dating Younger Women

Want to know the #1 Secret To Dating Younger Women?

I get at least 2-3 emails a week from men asking whether or not they can date girls who are younger than them.

I always find this to be such a strange question because there should never be any limitations on who you can and cannot date.

Listen, if the girl is 16 I am obviously going to advise against it but if she is legal and you connect, then I play ball!

The real question I like to throw back at these men is why are you putting boundaries on what you can and cannot do?

The #1 Secret To Dating Younger Women is to stop thinking about what complete strangers (women) want and start going after what you want. The only thing that stops you from getting what you want is your own head. So if you think that a younger women will not be interested in you then she won’t be. How could she be?

Thinking that younger women will not be attracted to you is an issue with YOU not women. The longer you have this belief the longer you will not be dating younger women.

The way to get rid of this belief is simple. Just throw it out the window and stop letting your insecurity about your age be your crutch or defense mechanism.

I can tell you that I have a lot of female friends who prefer dating older men.  In fact, I happen to be one of them.  In the past I had dated men who have been up to 20 years older than me and am now married to a man that is 10 years my senior.  To be honest at times, the issue of age did come into my mind but quickly disappeared every time.

There was one instance when age did become an issue and that was the time when the guy I was dating became totally fixated and insecure about our difference in age.  It was brought up every 2 weeks and I could tell that he was very uncomfortable with it.  This made me uncomfortable with it and it also annoyed me having to constantly defend my age and the reason we were together. Exhausting and very unattractive.

I thought it would be interesting to interview them and see why they preferred dating older men compared to men their own age.

“Older men are like a breath of fresh air. Most of the men that are my age (26) are not comfortable in their skin yet. They are still figuring themselves out. I did that 3 years ago and am ready to be with someone that is a little more mature, independent and confident.” – Melissa 26

“I like to date men who are in their late 30′s – early 40′s. They are less headaches and are more open to communicating because they are not worried about looking cool and being macho. Plus they know who they are or are at least closer to getting there then men my own age.” – Jennifer 27

“I have dated younger men and I have dated older men and I definitely prefer dating older men. They are just better. Men who are younger or my age don’t really interest me. I find it easier to connect to older men.” – Belinda 35

Everyone around you is an option and therefore women young or old will be attracted to you as long as you are attracted to yourself.

Remember, you can’t turn anyone on if you aren’t turning yourself on and doubt mixed with poor self worth will not turn anybody on.

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