Seriously guys, don't just read this and dismiss them…pick out at least 5 or 10 and TRY them…you will be amazed what you can do when you say “OK screw it let's do this!”
1. Figure out what you want, not what women want and be that guy
2. Join groups that you enjoy
3. Go to singles clubs and bars to socialize with other people who are looking for what you are looking for
4. Try online dating
5. Engage 5 people a day and say anything you want to them. Get them talking.
6. Go up to a women and tell her she looks pretty when she smiles
7. Approach a woman and read her palm. Doesn't matter what you say but tell her you see something that no one else can see about her.
8. Take a dance class
9. Take a Yoga class
10. Take an acting class
11. Be direct with your intentions
12. Tell a women her nose crinkles when she talks
13. Ask a woman an opinion opener. Make sure it is an opinion you really want to hear
14. Figure out your boundaries
15. If you do online dating put a subject header that says “user might be interested in you”
16. Think about what you will accept from women and what you won't
17. Make a list of what you want and how you want to get it
18. Write down all the things you want to do and try to do at least one a month
19. Learn about proper hygiene
20. Think about what YOU like
21. Ask a woman about what she really wants in life
22. Tell a woman you are looking for someone special
23. Don't ask for a woman's number unless you are really interested in her
24. When engaging a woman think in your head “Do I even like this women”
25. Remember that when approaching a women it can be your decision to walk away from the conversation
26. When you are being intimate with a woman tease her and caress her back right between the shoulder blades
27. Be in control of what you want
28. Do not over compliment women you do not know
29. When online dating, do not write a women an email over 1 paragraph. Even that is too much
30. Don't use someone else's material
31. Be you, and not some other guy you saw using a great line. Women can smell bullshit
32. Own your pick up style not someone else's
33. Dress to impress at all times. Develop your own style and own it
34. Do not use canned pick up lines. They make you seem like you are 50
35. Bring fun = approach with a reason even if that reason is because she is attractive. When people are out they want entertainment and fun. Be fun.
36. Be interesting meaning don't be dull. Have something to add
37. Look her in the eyes
38. Know that you have other options
39. Guide the conversation do not dominate it. You should be talking 25% of the time
40. Man up and approach. You will never have 1 on 1 fun if you don't ever approach.
41. BONUS – BE A MAN. Be the man women want.