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10 Green Flags To Look For In A Woman

April 14, 2023 By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl WGM

Being with the wrong woman will ruin your life and destroy your mental peace. Every day will bring new drama and you don't want that. That's why I want to help you select the right woman to date or be in a relationship with by sharing the 10 green flags to look for in a woman.

If you spot these green flags in a woman while getting to know her, she is a keeper. You can continue to escalate your relationship with her. So pay attention and read till the very end so you don't miss any of these 10 green flags to look for in a woman. Let's get into it. Here are the 10 biggest green flags to look for in a woman.

#1) Genuinely Desires You

You don't want to be with a woman who's not fully into you. You shouldn't be with someone who makes you wait for days for a text back. Who flakes on you last moment, does not reschedule, and gives you mixed signals. Who doesn't even make an effort to get to know you and hear what you have to say.

This might sound like common sense to you but you'd be surprised how many guys keep chasing women who will not invest back. They believe they can change her mind. They can turn her around. If they just did one more thing, they could get her. And yes in theory, I guess it could be done but it's such a waste of freaking time and any self-respecting man would find it insulting to chase a woman who clearly isn't interested.

That's not how healthy relationships are built or how they begin. If she's not genuinely interested in you, move on to somebody who is. And believe me, there are more than enough beautiful women out there who would be interested in you. You might not know them yet but they exist and you stop wasting your time on these other women. You'll be able to see them. Remember that.

#2) She Takes Care of Herself

This includes going to the gym, eating healthy, and taking care of her body as well as taking care of herself emotionally. If she relies on you to make her feel good and you're the only source of happiness in her life, the only source of happiness is you, you're going to end up in a terrible relationship.

She should know how to deal with her feelings and take charge of her own emotional well-being alongside her physical well-being as well. Plus only a person who puts effort into taking care of themselves is fully capable of taking care of others. And in a relationship, you're gonna have to take care of each other to an extent. Does that make sense?

#3) She Doesn't Seek Attention From Other Men

If she's posting revealing photos on social media or flirting with guys in person, chances are she craves male attention, right? And that's never going to end well for you. She could decide any day that she's tired of you and she'll find someone else to feed her massive need for validation.

So it's always better to be with a girl who does not seek that attention from other men. Also, pay attention to that because she may not be getting that right attention from you. Which is why she might be doing it. But if she is getting attention from you and she's still seeking it, there's something going on there.

#4) She Has a Healthy Relationship With Her Parents

So studies show that people who have healthy relationships with their parents tend to have better long-term romantic partnerships. For a girl, it's especially important that she has a good relationship with her father. If she respects her father and has a close bond with him, her relationship with men in general is usually healthy. Which will make your life much easier and save you a lot of trouble.

Doesn't mean you can't be with women who don't have good relationships with their father but it's a bigger green flag than the other way.

#5) She Shows Gratitude

If you're paying for her on a first date, buying a gift, or doing something nice for her, pay attention to whether she shows gratitude and says thank you. This is a really good sign of a positive character. It shows that she doesn't take your efforts for granted and appreciates you for the things that you do.

The women who don't say thanks and show appreciation in these scenarios probably feel entitled to these things and you won't have a healthy relationship with a woman like that.

#6) She Speaks Well of Others

Beware of women who talk badly about friends, family, co-workers, or exes because it could be an indicator that she might be the one who doesn't play well with others. You want to be with someone who's uplifting and positive and speaks well about other people.

These are huge green flags. Especially the people who are close in her life. This shows that she has a good character and most likely has good relationships with other people which makes it more likely for you to have a good relationship with her.

Also, take note of how they interact with people they don't care to form a relationship with. So the way they treat the other people around you, the bartender, the cab driver, the people sitting at the table, or behind you at the theater, does this person treat others with consideration and respect? Or are they selfish and rude? Rudeness is often an indication of how they'll treat you once they get comfort over time so don't ignore those snide remarks.

#7) She Communicates Openly

It's no secret that open communication is key to a healthy relationship. So you need to look for a woman who openly shares her thoughts, feelings, wants, and needs with you. Maybe with some coaxing but we'll do it. Someone who doesn't give you mixed signals or plays a bunch of mind games with you.

Sure, sometimes women can find it hard to open up. I don't do that myself. Especially in the early stages of courtship but if you create a safe space for her to take a genuine interest in knowing her, her thoughts, and her feelings, she will open up. She will usually open up to you. And if she still doesn't communicate openly, probably not a very good sign.

Also, watch if her actions match her words. If she does what she says, she will. That's a good sign. If it shows that she has integrity and that she'll make a reliable partner.

#8) She Remembers Things About You

If a woman remembers small details about her life, that's a very good sign. It shows that she cares enough to pay attention and make an effort to recall what you've shared with her. When she remembers details about you that you mentioned in passing, it really shows she listens to you and that she's highly invested in you.

And this goes back to our point about genuine desire which was point number one. Remembering that little details is a clear sign that she truly desires you and wants to be with you.

#9) She Supports Your Life Apart From Her

In the beginning stages of a relationship, it's natural to want to spend as much time together as possible. However, it's important that you're able to spend time apart without your partner getting upset. So you don't want to be with someone who is insecure and possessive and needs to spend every minute of the day with you.

That will make it difficult for you to keep up with the activities and other relationships that bring you joy and satisfaction. And quite frankly, drive you crazy. Plus this type of behavior will often lead to a string of terrible problems in a long relationship and you don't want that. It's better to be with someone who supports you in having your own life separate from them. So hopefully, you can give that back to her.

#10) She Supports Your Goals

This is obvious but still so important to mention. The right woman will motivate you to go after what you want. She will be your biggest fan, your cheerleader, and she will support you. She will want you to succeed in life and help you in any way that you can. And if you meet someone who meets those criteria, it's a very good sign that she will make a great partner, especially for a long-term partner.

All right, that concludes our list of green flags to look for in a woman. However, it's important to note that if you want to attract a woman who has these green flags, who's a real catch, and who will make you a very happy man, you need to have the green flags that women look for and are drawn to.

My best-selling program How to Become a Man Women Want will show you what these green flags are and how you can develop them. This program walks you through a 30-day transformation system to bring out the qualities in you. It will unblock and unlock the hidden traits in you that instantly make you more attractive to women and it will do so in 30 days with the help of a few simple exercises.

Thousands of men have gone through this 30-day transformation system and as a result, are now able to attract, date, sleep with, and have relationships with amazing high-quality women. Many have even ended up in long-term relationships and happy marriages due to this program. I get emails all the time which is great. And there's no reason why I can't do the same thing for you.

Click here and check out How to Become a Man Women Want. If you follow the tips and tricks I give you inside that program, you will be shocked by the transformation you go through in the next 30 days and you'll see with your own eyes what it's like to be a man who is desired and chased after by beautiful green flag women.

3 Uncomfortable Truths About Women’s Sex Drives

March 24, 2023 By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl WGM

Women are a mystery to most men but my job is to crack that mystery for you. So I'm gonna reveal three important but slightly uncomfortable truths about women's sex drives that no one else will ever tell you. Especially women.

So if you understand and remember these three secrets of female nature, it's going to be easier for you to attract and date them and be with them, get whatever I'm going. And you will have a huge upper hand over other guys who might compete against you. So I suggest that
you avoid all distractions. Pay attention to what I am going to share with you in the next few minutes.

All right, here are the three truths about women all men should know.

#1) Women Hate Cowards

The faster you learn this, the better. Women are turned on by bold behaviors and demonstrations. A bravery. And we're completely turned off by cowardice. So look at your typical romance novel which is basically porn for women. You'll find that they all feature warriors, oldies, bad boys, race car drivers, football players, firefighters, jet pilots, vampires, and other such bold individuals as male leads.

Not only are these men racy and exciting, but they're usually brash and extremely self-assured. They say what they want and go for it without apology. Now, this doesn't mean you have to become a jet pilot or a firefighter to get a woman. It means that you need to man the hell up, you need to use your courage.

Are you afraid to talk to her? Good, do it anyway. Afraid to ask her out? Good, do it anyway. Afraid to go for the kiss? Good, do it anyway. Women respect guys who are brave in the face of fear. I've talked about tension before. This is the tension I'm talking about. It shows real strength and we're drawn to men who are strong.

So if you want to turn your dating life around and start attracting more women, the first thing you need to do is tap into your courage. Be bold, be brave, and don't let fear stop you from doing what you want to do, or what is good for you. That is a hallmark of a strong high value man. The type of man that all women crave.

#2) Women Don't Want to be Your #1 Priority

So it's no secret that women like attention. But too much of it is a turn-off. Regardless of what the movies and television shows tell you women do not want to be at the center of your world 24 hours a day. Women don't want to be treated like a queen or a princess 24 hours a day. Some women might say they do but BS. Women prefer men who put themselves first. Who take care of themselves. Do what they like and prioritize their own life. Women perceive it as a sign of high value.

In fact, that is why women often fall for bad boys and jerks. These types of guys might be toxic in the long run but since they put themselves first and don't make the girl their biggest priority, we tend to put them in the high-value category. It's almost subconscious for us and that's why we don't realize it until it's too late.

Now, this doesn't mean that again you have to be an a-hole to attract a woman in selfishness and like only you. But a little bit of healthy selfishness and putting your own needs first and wants first will go a long way. And if you can be a man that can clearly communicate these needs and establish boundaries from the get-go, oh my God, you will be our hero forever.

Again, you don't need to be a dick to attract women. You can be kind, thoughtful, and respectful, and still be direct, clear, and firm.

#3) Women Want a Man in Demand

What I mean by that is women want a man who's liked and respected by other women. This is why male celebrities and athletes get girls so easily. It's more than the money or good looks. It's social proof that acts in their favor. However, you don't need to be a celebrity to be a man in demand.

If you're a guy who's social and who's confident, who can engage women in conversations, who can flirt well which is really important. And who creates an environment where women naturally get flirty and playful with you, there will be lots and lots of women who are interested in you. You will be a man in demand and it will be way easier for you to attract the girls that you like and want.

However, if you can barely talk to a woman, you have little or no social confidence or social life, and other women don't even flirt with you, it's going to be hard for you to land the woman that you want. Because then, you're going to be perceived as a man without options. A man not in demand. And that's not attractive to women.

Sure, you will get the occasional phone number or even a date but you will never be as hunted after and well-light and attractive as the guys who are seen as in demand. And you will frequently end up in the friend zone. That's why if you want the most amazing dating experience, it's crucial to position yourself as a man in demand.

And if you want an abundance of dating options like only movie stars or athletes have and you want to avoid settling for women that you don't necessarily like, you absolutely need to be in that in-demand category. In my best-selling program, How to Become a Man Woman Want, I take guys through a 30-day journey that turns them into a man in demand.

It is a complete in-and-out transformation. And if you're willing to take the 30-day challenge, you too can become a man in demand who has endless options in dating. So just click here and find out more about How to Become a Man Woman Want.

We've had thousands and thousands of successful students in the program who have gone on to date the amazing wonderful women of their dreams and most people start securing dates with high-quality women within just two to three weeks into the program. And many have gone into long-term relationships and marriages through this program. It's amazing. I'm really proud of it.

I highly recommend that you give it a try. Go check it out now. Trust me, it will change your dating life like nothing else. I've seen it over and over with thousands of men and I see no reason why it's going to do anything differently for you. I've said it a million times, get ready to date like a man in demand. And believe me, you're gonna love it.

4 Connection Building Moves to Build Chemistry with a Woman

January 27, 2023 By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl WGM

Okay, so what makes a woman want to date a man? What's the most important factor? What move for this connection building with women that are proven to work?

Recently, a study was conducted at the University of California, Davis to answer this question. They analyze 6,600 speed dates that they set up and discovered that a feeling of connection was the number one factor that determined if a woman wanted to go on a real date with a man after the experiment. It wasn't attraction, perceived popularity, status, or anything of that sort. It was the feeling of connection which you can also call chemistry or compatibility that made the biggest difference.

Now, as a woman, that doesn't really surprise me very much. I understand the value of a strong emotional connection and how much we women rely on it when choosing someone to date. However, most guys have no idea how to create a solid connection with a woman. Especially in a short span of time. So that's why I want to show you four simple moves to create the sense of connection or chemistry that will allow you to land more dates with women of your choice.

If you apply these four moves in your first interaction with a woman or even on a first date, she's definitely going to want to see you again. So here are the four connection building moves that you should use.

Set a Playful Tone to Start

Playfulness and humor bond people faster than anything else. But most guys don't take advantage of this. They treat a conversation as an exchange of logical information. I call this exchanging data points.

So where are you from? I'm from Wisconsin.
What do you do for a living? I'm a sales manager or I'm an accountant.
What do you like?

It's boring, it's data points, it's robotic, and it goes on and on. This is again… boring stuff. No woman who has a conversation like this with a guy will think: “Oh my God, I hope I see him again. He's so dreamy.”

So instead of focusing on a mere exchange of information, you gotta start focusing on having fun and being playful. Especially during the early parts of the interaction and there are two easy ways to do this. So you first answer the basic small talk questions you get at the start of the conversation in a silly or absurd manner.

If she says: “So what do you do?”, Instead of answering logically which is “I do this”, you can say: “Well, I just quit my day job to be a full-time male stripper. I think it's going to work out quite well.”.

Or she asks: “Where are you from?”, you reply to her with: “Well, my mommy tells me that I'm a gift from God so Heaven. I guess so.”

This is not overly witty expert comedian-type humor. It's just being silly with her. It's something for her to remember afterward. Nothing not taking anything too seriously. Not only will it make the woman laugh which is a great thing but it will immediately set you apart from guys who keep giving boring answers to these basic questions.

So after cracking the joke, you can go ahead and give a serious reply. But adding humor early in the conversation will always serve you well and plant the seeds of connection because it gets people to drop barriers. You can also give silly sarcastic or observe replies to her answers.

So let's say she tells you she's a lawyer, you can say: “Oh, a lawyer, I guess I gotta be careful of what I say around you. Don't let me drink tonight.”

Or if she tells you that she's from Tennessee, you can say: “Oh, so you're a musician, huh? Can you write me a nice little love song?”

Again, like these aren't good, but just do something that is not the norm. It's all about letting loose and saying silly things. And trust me, it will make an amazing impression on the woman and she will start to feel that chemistry with you because she's dropping that guard and making her like just be different with you and having a connection.

A practical exercise you can do to start building this habit is this. So start answering the first question you get in an interaction in a playful manner just like with everybody. Or you have a playful reply to her answer. Either of those works but get in the habit of adding humor to a conversation early on.

Open and Expand

While playfulness and humor are always appreciated in a conversation and can like to open up a woman to more connection, it doesn't always mean you have to be fun and funny. You can be serious too. Especially if that's who you are. In fact, you have to be at some point. However, guys make a big mistake in this department as well.

As I mentioned before, most guys treat a conversation as an information exchange, and with that comes the awful habit of answering questions in an extremely short logical manner. So question, short service level answer followed by a question for her. This doesn't create any chemistry or connection. If you do this, you'll very soon find yourself asking her question and she will feel like she's being interrogated which is not good and that's not good for you either because it's boring for you.

So if you want conversations to flow more naturally and create a connection, the best thing you can do is practice. Giving more expansive answers and replies usually injecting emotion into them.

“So what do you do for fun?”

“Well, I like to go bowling with my friends on the weekend. It's a great way to make sure we hang out at least once a month. Plus I'm a really competitive guy so it's a lot of fun for me to play against my friends. It gets really competitive at times. Let me go crazy.”

See how different that is from the common conversation. It's giving more of you. This gives so much more insight into your personality which is crucial for bonding. You reveal that you're competitive, you have friends, and you're giving her a lot more. Even if I personally don't like bowling, I can relate to the fun of doing something with my friends, being competitive, and so on.

Not only do you show your personality, but when you give expansive answers, you also become relatable to people regardless of their personal experiences or references. You start to connect with your values and emotions. And that's the real basis of a solid connection. It's the sub-level.

So learn to give expansive answers and you don't have to go on a super long monologue like I'm giving to you but just push yourself to open up more and give more
than that one sentence. So try to talk at least 10 to 15 seconds longer than you normally would to give her more. So this is going to make the conversations flow easily and spark a real connection.

Use Warm Platonic Touches

This is literally the easiest way to build trust and connection. But again, most guys don't take advantage of it like 99% of guys don't take advantage of it. If you've just met a girl and you want to add some warm platonic touches into the early interaction, you can do a handshake. You can do a high five, resting your hand on her shoulder to get her attention. There are so many ways to do this.

It's one of the best ways to connect with anybody but specifically a woman, you need to use this tool to your advantage and you need to start early with your touches. The longer you delay, the more awkward it's going to feel for her and for you. So I would say touch her at least once within the first 10 to 15 seconds of conversation and this could be a simple handshake. But just do it, do something. Get in the habit of initiating touch early on. It's going to help you more than you can imagine.

Be an Exceptional Listener

Once you get the conversation going and you see that she's opening up to you, it's extremely important to be an amazing listener. Women absolutely love the feeling of being fully heard and understood. Plus you want to get her talking. So like this is great and being a great listener will make her feel that way there are two easy steps to being a fantastic listener.

First, when you're talking to her, give her your full attention. Nothing feels more annoying or insulting than someone looking around and visibly not paying attention when you're talking. So face her, look at her, and give her your full attention.

Second thing you can do is this. Encourage her to elaborate or expand on what she's talking about. Let's say she says she switched schools a lot when she was growing up, you can encourage her to expand by saying: “Oh, you know, tell me more about that. What was that like?” That like encourages her.

If she's telling you about a great vacation she took recently, I don't know like Barcelona, you can say: “Wow, that sounds nice, tell me more about that.” Trust me, she will absolutely love this and love you for this. Everybody loves this. This phrase tells me more is literally a cheat code if you use it when a woman has already started opening up to you. This will speed up and strengthen the connection like crazy and she will be eager to spend more time with you because she'll feel more connected to you. She's being heard.

And that said, we have reached the end of our list of connection building moves. However, there's one last point that I want to make. And so while these moves are incredibly effective and will make women want to spend more time with you, there's one more thing you need if you want to take things to the next level with her. Whether it's a date or just attraction sexually and that's flirting.

Flirting is the one move that not only builds connection because it's playful and fun but it also creates sexual tension which you need in every interaction which makes it easy for you to go from hello to a date to the bedroom. Because the urge to release all the sexual attention is what leads to physical intimacy. This means if you don't know how to flirt properly like most guys, you're gonna always struggle to get to that physical intimacy part.

And that's why I recommend you to check out my F Formula. It is a simple 3-step method of flirting with women that we developed over a decade ago. The program has been tested on over 8,000 women. It builds chemistry, it ignites red-hot sexual tension that women simply can't resist. Put the F Formula to the test in your next conversation with a woman and watch how she gets hot for you.

Thousands of my students have already used the F Formula to attract and date amazing high-quality women. So there's no reason why it won't work for you. Plus it is so easy that you can master it over a short weekend. So all you have to do is click here to check the F Formula and see it for yourself. I am sure that you will love it.

Where to Meet 30 Hot Women In 30 Days

December 16, 2022 By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl WGM

Marni, where do I meet more women who are available and ready to talk to me, ready to get down with me? This is a question I get often. And the short answer is women are everywhere. Not just at bars and clubs like most men think. Which I know is an annoying response.

But here's a more expanded answer that will help you find the woman that is right for you. The type of women you want and are likely to click with may not be everywhere. For that, you need a totally different approach. You need to be smarter about it.

And that's what this article is about. I'm going to show you exactly how and where to meet loads of beautiful high quality women who you will find attractive and who will find you attractive as well. In other words, I want to help you meet single hot women who will be a good match for you and will be open to dating you. It's actually very simple once you know exactly what to do.

Short Story

Let me begin by telling you a short story about meeting women. So this is an important story because it illustrates a great way to find meet and connect with awesome women. Here's what happened a few years back. I think it was in 2014.

I had Tucker Max on my podcast, the Ask Women Podcast. Now in case you don't know, Tucker Max is multiple times best-selling author, a successful entrepreneur, a public speaker, and most importantly, the most famous F Boy
America has ever known. At least at one point in his life, Tucker got his fame by posting short stories about his drinking adventures and sexual encounters on his website.

And those short stories later turned into best-selling books. I think a movie he was best known for being that a-hole or a jerk who sleeps around with loads of women but doesn't seem to treat them right. So he came to my podcast
and revealed that at one point, he got tired of his player lifestyle. While sleeping around with a different woman every day was fun for a while and made him very famous and very rich, his priorities had started to change.

And at a certain point, he decided that he now wants a serious girlfriend. He wants a stable and healthy relationship with the beautiful woman of his choice. But hitting the bars and clubs every night didn't help him achieve that. Going back to those same places where he was meeting one-night stands wasn't helping. The kind of women that he met there wasn't the kind of women that he wanted to settle down with and they didn't want to settle down or at least that environment didn't have women who were like-minded and in the same place that he was.

So he did something that most guys don't do. He went to his drawing board and made a saw plan to meet the type of woman he really wanted to be with. So what was the plan? Because this is what I want you to do. It's very simple
but Tucker did this.

He went to his whiteboard and wrote down the most important traits and qualities he wanted in a woman. Then he wrote down where these types of women are likely to hang out.

Write Down The List of Traits

For example, let's say he wanted someone who is fit and like staying in good shape. So he wrote fit, good shape, fitness on one side of the board and then think of where we could meet such a girl. So he'd write down the gym. Maybe a local sporting event. A yoga class, an outdoor activity like hiking or trekking, or whole foods even. Healthy people eat healthy food. Though there are so many possibilities you get the point of what I'm saying.

First, he got clear on what he wanted in a woman. Then he brainstormed all the places a woman like that would visit and this targeted approach helped him land a beautiful girlfriend in no time. He got into an amazing relationship without my tassel. I don't know where that relationship is now but at the time, he was very happy. And you can apply the same strategy that Tucker used for your dating life.

Start with what you're looking for. So what do you value in a woman? Intelligence, beauty, education, and similar interests. But what's going to be really big. So I recommend you boil it down to four or five of the most essential ingredients. What trait does she absolutely 100% need to have.

And when you list a trait, ask yourself if she didn't have this trait, would it be a complete deal breaker for you? So keep that trait on the list only if the answer is yes. Prioritizing what you look for in a woman will help you decide where to look.

So once you have your list of traits, you ask yourself where would a girl like this hang out. Where does she like to be? What activities does she take part in? What places would she visit? For example, if one of your non-negotiable traits is intelligence, you can have great luck at educational classes like foreign language classes or CPA training or bookstores or self-help seminars, art galleries, museums, business networking events, and on and on.

Interest

Here's one more filter that you can add to the process. Look at your own interests and passions. Research shows that we like people who are like us. It's psychology proven and we are likely to click with people who are like us.

So ask yourself what do you enjoy doing most. Do you love to read? Do you play music? Are you into sports and competitions? Are you really into sci-fi or Dungeons and Dragons? Do you like art? What are some events, places, or organizations that you can become involved in that? Explore your hobbies.

You see, I'm highlighting you and if you don't know what your passions or interests are, then take some time to write down activities you've always wanted to try but never had the time or the nerve to do and make a promise to get involved in those activities or events in some way as fast as possible.

See, the main point that I'm trying to make is a really simple one. If you focus your time and energy on meeting women in situations where they are likely to share your interests and needs, then you will meet women who naturally click with you. Or in other words, women who are highly compatible with you. Which means you will have much higher degrees of success.

By starting with your interest, means you will give yourself a massive advantage. And you don't need to go to bars and clubs, right? You'll make the dating process 10 times easier for you. So if you get started right away and commit to this strategy for the next 30 days at least, you would be shocked at how many amazing women you will meet in a very short time.

In fact, you could easily meet 20 to 30 highly compatible women by doing this within a month. And I've seen so many of my students do it and there is no reason why it can't work for you.

Takeaway

Now if you're wondering what to say when you meet a woman that you like and how to land a date with her, do not worry. Simply click here and check out the F Formula. So the F Formula is a simple three-step process you can use to ignite sexual chemistry with a woman and escalate the interaction
without being pushy or creepy.

Basically, it shows you how to go from hello to date and eventually to the bedroom and very fast without any hassle. And it's extremely easy for any guy to master and a very short time. So like I said, simple three-step process. And what's more? When you use this formula with a woman who shares your interests and needs as in a woman who is
compatible with you, attraction is inevitable. It's easier.

She's not going to be able to resist you at all. She will actually chase you for dates, relationships, or whatever it is that you want. My students use the same formula to attract and date the women of their dreams. And there is no reason why it can't be the same for you. So just go try it and see for yourself. Pretty easy, right?

Click here to check out the F Formula and I am sure that you will love it.

3 “Nice Guy” Rules You Must Break to Attract Women

July 22, 2022 By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl WGM

Whether they know it or not… Nice guys play by a certain set of rules when interacting with women.

And unknowingly, these hidden rules keep them from actually getting the women they want. If you’re a nice guy who’s unable to attract women, read this article carefully.

There are 3 rules you follow – without even knowing – that are causing you to push women away. You need to break these 3 rules immediately if you want women to fall for you and want to be with you.

Here are the 3 “nice guy” rules you must break to finally attract the women you want.

Rule #1: The Indirect Rule

Every nice guy on earth has a tendency to hide their interest in women. They want to seduce a girl indirectly. They want covert methods to make a woman fall in love and think that if they show their interest upfront, they might seem desperate or get rejected.

And look, to be fair, that’s a possibility. Sometimes that will happen. But it’s a risk worth taking. In fact, it’s a must. You have to take that risk. Like the typical nice guy, if you start to hide your interest in women, you will be put into the friend zone as most nice guys do.

After all if a woman has little or no idea that you like her, but you seem like a good guy… The only logical thing to do is make yourself a friend. There’s no advantage in being indirect. If you’re direct about your interest in a woman… If you let her know that you’re into her and you’d like to date her… One of two things will happen. Either she’ll be cool with it and agree to a date with you. Or she’s gonna say no. Both are a win.

I mean, if she says yes, it’s obviously a win. But even if she says no, it saves you so much time and energy. You can simply move on and focus on a different girl.
Nice guys don’t understand this. They choose to be indirect, fall into the friend zone and then hopelessly try to climb out of it and win over the girl. It’s a losing strategy. And one you should never use.

Rule #2: The Rapport Rule

Wanting to build rapport with the person you like is a natural desire. We all want to make a good impression and be liked by the person we like. But if we obsess over rapport and being liked, it can become a huge problem. And that’s the problem nice guys face.

You see, a nice guy doesn’t just want rapport, he NEEDS it. And not only does he NEED it, but he’s also gonna do whatever it takes to maintain it. That means, he’s gonna play it as safe as possible. He’s not gonna disagree with the girl… ever. He’s never gonna say no to her and going to pretend to like everything she likes and dislike everything she dislikes.

Moreover, He’s not gonna touch her because he’s worried about being creepy. He’ll laugh at every joke she makes, even if it’s not funny. Basically, he’s only gonna say and do things that are guaranteed to build and maintain rapport. This makes him a people pleaser. And if you’ve watched my channel before, you probably know how much women hate a people pleaser. It’s literally our biggest turn-off.

You can be ugly, short, bald, broke, whatever. You’ll still be able to attract women. But if you come off as a people pleaser, you’ve zero chance. The worse part is, women instinctively pick up on this. It’s like we have a mental software which examines if a guy is a people pleaser. This means, that if you’re rapport hungry like most nice guys are, women will know. And it means that it’s time to change your mindset.

Like I said before, it’s okay to want someone to like you. But you must be okay with them disliking you as well. Because let’s face it, even if you’re the most attractive guy in the world… If you exhibit all the traits of the perfect man… There will be women who don’t like you. And that’s normal.

It doesn’t mean you’re not good enough in some way. It doesn’t mean something is wrong with you or that you lack something within you. And it just means that you’re not compatible with that woman at that time. There are thousands and thousands of women you’d be compatible with. Just go out and interact. You’ll find one.

In fact, if you use the strategies I discuss on the channel or go through one of my programs, you’ll find that many women will like you. Many women will want you. And would be eager to date you. But even with all my tactics and programs, you can’t make everyone like you. So whenever you talk to women, don’t obsess over rapport. Talk to them freely, express yourself honestly and see what it leads to.

You’ll have so much more success with women if you do that.

Rule #3: The Validation Rule

Nice guys believe they must get a woman’s validation in order to feel good about themselves. The woman’s approval decides whether they’re good enough or not.
This subconscious rule or belief is where the people-pleasing behaviour stems from. The reason a nice guy does so much to make a woman like him, isn’t just to get laid or get a girlfriend, but it’s to validate to himself that he’s worthy of affection.

The problem with this rule is a massive one. First of all, if your self-perception is based on other people’s perceptions of you, then you’re screwed. Like I said before, there will always be people who don’t like you. This means you’ll always have a reason to dislike yourself. What happens when you don’t like yourself? You seek more validation. You NEED other people to make you believe that you’re worthy of love and affection.

In other words, you become a needy individual. And guess what? No woman likes a needy man. This means, that if you’re super needy, it’ll almost be impossible for you to get any woman to date you. You’ll be forced to remain single. This is unfortunately what happens to most nice guys. And this is kinda like a closed loop.

They seek validation from women… That makes them needy… Being needy makes them unattractive… Being unattractive makes them feel bad about themselves…
And that feeling now forces them to seek more validation. They’re basically in a loop. And that’s why they never seem to get any woman they like.

Now, to break this loop, you must stop seeking any external validation. You must learn to believe in your value as a man. You must become self-assured. Of course, this is easier said than done. But there is a shortcut. I’ve been working closely with renowned dating coach and NLP expert Mark Sing. And together we’ve created something extraordinary.

A tool that will help you destroy your insecurities, remove any validation-seeking behaviour and build rock-solid confidence- in just 10 minutes a day. This is a completely new and revolutionary program which we’re calling Visualization Mastery.

I’m certain that you’ve never seen anything like this before. This new program uses the scientific process of visualization to get inside your brain and demolish any negative beliefs you have about yourself. And then replace those beliefs with new ones which give you unshakeable confidence and self-assurance.

All within 10 minutes a day. You simply listen to the program, follow the instructions and watch your insecurities around women and dating get washed away. The best part is… You’ll find a new sense of confidence coursing through your veins after your very first visualization session. That’s how fast it starts to work.

What’s more… When we tested this on 48 guys as a part of a beta test… The results were overwhelmingly positive. That’s why I’m so pumped about this program. Those guys in our test group saw a 300% improvement in their dating lives, within 30 days, with just 10 minutes of visualization. That means 3 times more phone numbers. 3 times more dates. And 3 times more sexual encounters. There’s no reason why it can’t do something similar for you as well.

Feel free to check it out. I’m 100% confident that you’ll love it. There’s never been a tool like this for guys. A tool which allows you to remove insecurities, build confidence and therefore become attractive to women – all in just 10 minutes a day. If you’re interested, have a look at it right now.

How To Escalate With A Woman Sexually | EXACT Steps & Without Being Creepy

April 8, 2022 By Marni Your Personal Wing Girl WGM

Some guys have all it takes to escalate with a woman. You are likely to find a man conversing with a hot lady in most cases. Probably at the bar, and coffee shop, among other fancy places.

And within a short duration, they make out passionately and even try to find more space for their privacy. You must be wondering how this even happens. So, what are these men doing to make women want to escalate with them and get sexual?

This comprehensive post will inform you more about how to escalate with a woman without being rejected or creepy. And by the end of this topic, you will notice that the entire process is easy. Besides, to successfully escalate with a woman without any struggle, you must be willing to practice and stay patient.

Before that, let us determine what separates men who easily escalate with women from guys who get rejected whenever they move toward women. However, this is not based on looks, appearance, status, or money, but:

Mindset

You must understand that multiple guys who struggle to get sexual with ladies have some misconceptions stuck in their minds, which makes them feel guilty and bad about making a move on ladies. They often think that women do not love men getting sexual with them or they do not enjoy sex as they do. And by making moves, they might be offending the lady by pushing her away or being a burden.

Most of the time, this belief is due to bad experiences with women in the past. Probably, you have also experienced a similar scenario. If you do not control these experiences and beliefs, they can potentially hold you back considerably.

However, it is never true that women do not love being approached and getting sexual. Women love to escalate sexually, and whatever men hold in their minds are only myths and misconceptions. Furthermore, guys who are perfect at escalating understand this better and never find it wrong to make a move on a lady with a good concept.

They also know that they have to move on if they get a negative response. This kind of men never second guess themselves, which makes women go along with the escalation since they do not experience any barrier.

Bear in mind that you cannot just be casual with a woman and expect you can make out with her within the next few minutes. Sexually escalation has a slow procedure, and it is intuitive. This means guys do not have to plan to escalate with ladies sexually.

You must understand that attraction functions differently for men and women. Men are usually attracted and turned on at first sight. However, women's minds function very differently, and this is what most guys do not understand.

Women usually get turned on gradually as time goes by. This means guys must make a gradual move to turn on ladies to make them reach a point of attraction. This is what sexual escalation is all about. There is no doubt that most guys mess up at this point.

They make a big move earlier or never make any move due to fear of being rejected. Remember, the best way of escalating is to take it slow as you gradually turn on the hit based on the lady's reaction.

So, how do you sexually escalate with a woman?

Here are several steps that will guide you in sexually escalating with women:

Hold Eye Contact

When you have just commenced conversing with a woman of your choice, there is no sexual attention between you. Here, you can hold your eye contact longer than usual while maintaining sparkling eyes. This will add sexual tension to your interaction. In addition, never underestimate the power of voice tonality and eye contact. It is good to stare at your lady and make her feel like she is going to the moon.

Ensure that you maintain this vibe in your entire conversation. And as a man, you usually have an obligation of leading; even when a lady needs you desperately, she will always be more than willing to wait for you to escalate her sexually. As it goes, male energy leads as feminine energy follow.

Add Physical Touch

If things go well, add a little physical touch by touching your lady on the arm and shoulders and placing your hands on her knees as you figure out her reaction. Suppose she is uncomfortable, tone it done, and gradually turn the boiler down.

But if she reacts like she does not mind or reciprocate your touch, slowly proceed and move closer to her physically and talk in a lower tone. This will build much sexual tension, but again you must observe her reaction.

Suppose she is okay; ensure you continue with the escalation process gradually. Look her in her eyes and emphasize her beauty. Look at your lady's lips for two seconds or even a second. This will give her a signal that you are about to kiss her. If you do not notice any discomfort, she is sexually attracted to you, which means you have exercised the gradual escalation properly. And if you want to make out, she is doubtful to resist.

Avoid Predicting What Will Happen

Trying to predict or guess the results of you touching your lady will only leave you with negative or positive predictions. However, negative presumptions will prevent you from sexually escalating with your woman.

Please remember the acronym AFC (Action, Feedback, and Calibration). This will ensure you approach the escalation process based on action, feedback, and calibration. Furthermore, do not try calibrating before taking action.

Suppose you do, you would have given your inner critic and limiting belief a chance to stop you from doing what is necessary, which is a total recipe for failure. As mentioned earlier, men who understand sexual escalation are scarce. And this explains why few get more sexual options than they can manage.

You can use a three-step flirting formula on any woman to get her eager to escalate with you.

It is an excellent formula with a completely foolproof for flirting, which functions on multiple ladies regardless of their experience with men, career, or even beauty. You only need to examine the formula and be ready to learn the entire flirting process.

It's so powerful that you can use it to have any girl begging to kiss you within just minutes of meeting her. That sounds like an exaggeration, but you can try this flirting formula. Then see if it happens or not. I've made a brief video on this amazing formula and how it works.

Thousands of guys who have seen this value-packed video report to me how it completely changed their lives with women. Knowing this powerful flirting formula made it easy for them to date any woman they wanted, even those they thought would never be interested in them.

So if you want the same thing for yourself, which I'm sure you do, you should see this video and start using the amazing formula. I am very sure that you will enjoy it.

Marni

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