How To Tell A Girl You Like Her
Let's talk about how to tell a girl you like her so that she likes you more, instead of less.
You’ve been on a couple of dates with a girl.
She’s cool, shares your values and you are totally attracted to her.
Then you think to yourself, if I tell her I like her I will creep her out and she’ll think I’m needy and pull away. So you decide to do the opposite of what you feel and pull away, act cool and aloof.
Which in turn has her pull away, lose attraction, and then the whole thing fizzles. I imagine that's not how you wanted it to end?
What was the start of something great, quickly went south when it didn’t need to at all.
Did you know that you can tell a girl you like her without coming across as needy, creepy, or eager?
How to tell a girl you like her without being needy?
You do it like this: I like you!
Easy as that. Not, I love you. Not, I want to make babies with you.
Definitely not, I’m obsessed with you and sit outside your window every night just to make sure you're not seeing other guys.
The best words a woman can hear
A simple, confident, clear “I like you” coming from a guy you like are the best words a woman can hear.
I remember when I guy I really liked said that to me. We were fooling around after our 3rd or 4th date.
The setting was dim lights, some soft music on and we were just totally connecting both physically and emotionally.
As were kissing he pulls back, looks deep into my eyes, and then says “I like you. I’m going to keep you around for a bit”. Then he smiled at me and went back to kissing me.
I don’t remember exactly what I was thinking, but I do remember how I felt.
My whole body had this warm rush like my body was smiling.
And I do remember the reason I liked it so much. It was because I felt the same, and him telling me took away those first few week jitters that I had felt with so many other guys.
Not the good jitters. The bad ones. The ones that had me guessing and feeling insecure. The ones that had me doubting my actions instead of just having fun.
This one simple statement relaxed me so that I could be myself because he liked me.
Next time you like a girl and you guys are vibing, look her in the eye and say I like you.
What to say if you want to be exclusive
One of my readers wrote in to ask if he should say something different if he's serious about a girl.
Here's what he asks:
For the girl that I do end up wanting to be exclusive with, any suggestions or principles to keep in mind when it comes to letting her know that?
The only principle to tell a girl you like her
The only principle is to just tell her. “I like you and I enjoy spending time with you”. This is simple, clear, honest, and not overly gushy, needy, or emotional.
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