What Women Find Attractive and Unattractive? The answer revealed!
Last night I was partaking in my usual Monday night, guilty pleasure of watching the Bachelor Pad. In case you don't know the Bachelor Pad is a spin off of the Bachelor series where they take ex contestants, put them in a house and have them compete for $250,000. During the competition they are also interacting with the opposite sex and attempting to possibly find love.
Every week I say to myself, I have to show that clip to you. And every week, I forget to do it but this week is different. This weeks clip was too good to forget about.
I have titled the video clip below: Looks Only Go So Far, What Women Find Attractive and Unattractive. Many men never believe me when I say that, women will choose personality over looks every time. Looks can get you in the door, but it's personality that will keep you there.
My commentary is sprinkled throughout the video.
Watch as Jesse B, who is a total cutie, can INSTANTLY lose Peyton's attraction and become repulsive.
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Marni's Commentary: So I am pretty sure some of you are going to say to me “What a bit*h. She should give him a chance. He made 1 mistake…..” I have heard this from people before and my answer is always the same. I tell you how women DO react, not how they SHOULD react. Based on that theory, Jesse SHOULD have not made these stupid mistakes, but he did. AND what he did, in case it was not clear, was hurt her feelings because he took away an amazing romantic moment that she thought he was feeling as well.
As a woman, I could feel Peyton's disappointment because I constantly experience this in my own relationship. When I am in a romantic mood and turned on by my man and then he does something “dudeish” I get sad. Sad that the moment wasn't reciprocated. The thing is that I understand it from the guys POV as well. I know that when I am with my man and we are really connecting, he gets comfortable with me and when he gets comfortable he lets out his real self. Sometimes his real self wants to pick my nose or fart. As much as I should take it as a compliment, I don't.
Same thing happened with Jesse. Jesse got super comfortable and showed his true self, which is great. BUT there is a difference between being yourself with the guys and a being yourself with a woman you are on a second date with and trying to date/sleep with/be with. This was Jesse and Peyton's 2nd date not their 6th year of a relationship. Therefore Peyton only has the 1st date and this experience to form her opinion of him. And sadly for Jesse, her opinion is NOT FOR ME.
Let me know what you think. Post your comment and share your thoughts.
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