What Do Women Want To Talk About?

What do women want to talk about?

Anything and everything! As long as they are included in the conversation.

NOTE: This is true as long as you actually are present in the conversation and not trying to get to an outcome.ย  If you are outcome focused, you will not be in the moment with a woman and she will feel that instantly and put up her own barrier.

Here is an example of how to talk to women about anything you want and like!


If you are talking about video games. Talk about the video game then talk about WHY you like video games. The WHY is the important part to women because it =’s an emotion. And emotions are what women are looking for in conversation. Remember women react to how you feel, not what you say.

TIP: #1 to remember to inject emotion into a conversation is by using the magic word BECAUSE.ย  Another great phrase is “Which means”.ย  Both will trigger you to expand and elaborate on what you have said to a woman.

I like video games BECAUSE it lets me be in a world so different from my own.ย  I really like getting to lead and do things I would never do in my real life.

Then to include her in the conversation you can say:

Do you have anything like that in your life, that takes you away from your every day routine?

As long as you attach an emotion to a topic, are present and remember to include HER in the conversation, you have free range to talk about ANYTHING!

Still don’t know what women want to talk about and how to talk to women? Sign up for a conversational strategy session with me. In 30 minutes I show you have to have attractive conversation with women so they will always want you more ๐Ÿ™‚ย  Click here to sign up for a session.

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  1. Joe // September 4, 2011 at 8:05 pm

    “Remember to inject emotion into a conversation…” No, no, no! Leave emotion out of it! And, what I “feel” is irrelevant. It only matters what the lady thinks. When are people going to learn this?

    • Marni // September 6, 2011 at 11:18 pm

      Not that type of emotion. NOT saying to act EMOTIONAL but saying to paint a picture that creates an emotion in a woman.

      • skwadim // September 23, 2011 at 1:30 pm

        Really? So my next conversation I can bring up:

        -The diehard movies
        -the wu tang clan
        -the latest xmen movie
        -muhammad ali’s rumble in the jungle fight
        -weird al yankovics concert

        because these are things that I am interested in. Interestingly enough, they’ve never really endeared me to that hot blonde woman.

        • skwadim // September 23, 2011 at 1:31 pm

          oh I also like the matrix, but more than just a movie, discussing the philosophy behind it as well.

          • Al // February 9, 2012 at 1:56 pm

            thats cause you’re probably a boring negative sh*t, who couldnt pull if you looked like Brad Pitt. Just saying ๐Ÿ˜€

          • mc // February 2, 2013 at 4:20 am

            Yes. Do all these things. But remember to be well built and ideally wearing a suit with a nice watch and shoes.

    • Marni Wing Girl // October 22, 2011 at 9:45 am

      Hi Joe

      it doesn’t only matter what the lady thinks! Remember, you’ve got to know that women are attracted to guys that have an opinion,& who have standards/ boundaries with the people they date. So what you think of her is really important to! ๐Ÿ™‚

  2. Royal // September 4, 2011 at 9:30 pm

    That’s Excellent Advice. I never thought about that but it makes a lot of sense. From now on, I’ll be utilizing such advice in all my conversations with my girlfriend and any other woman I desire to meet in the future. Thanks for your insight.

  3. diamondeel // September 4, 2011 at 10:32 pm

    The advice is excellant. The good thing about Marni instructions is it applies to all aspect of our social life. Dating, business & friends. One with communication issues with women usually are loners in society.

  4. Troy Vayanos // September 5, 2011 at 3:34 am

    Great article Marni, some really good advice. I’ll definately remember that next time i’m talking to a woman I like.


  5. Sharpe // September 20, 2011 at 7:22 pm

    Great advice, I never think about saying this when i’m drinking though lol

  6. Alex // October 7, 2011 at 2:20 pm

    I’ll have date with my wife tonight so I’ll be sure to try this tip! Thanks for the advice Marni!

    And for the rest of you, yes I said wife. We have an awesome marriage but that doesn’t mean I stop learning to be a better husband. And these tips from Marni are definitely improving the marriage!

    • Marni // October 7, 2011 at 2:22 pm

      That comment just made my day Alex! It’s so true. Everything I’m talking about and showing you guys is not just for picking up women. It’s for every interaction with women. Picking up, attracting, dating, seducing, Long Term!

  7. Ivan // October 28, 2011 at 8:01 am

    In my opinion showing emotions could go both ways. Some women might like it while others might think you are soft. I always find myself talking about what they like, what they like to do and what they don’t like. I try to be super interested in everything they say (treat them like a retarded child) hahaha just kidding, but true to a certain extend.

    • Marni Wing Girl // November 1, 2011 at 12:03 pm

      Definitely true that you need to show interest in the girl and listen.

      However you also want to avoid ‘interview mode’ and offer her some grounds to be into you. Try finding some common ground and confidentally express your opinions on a subject that she is into so that you can still talk about stuff she’s into but show your ability to be a sexual leader in the conversation too ๐Ÿ™‚

      • Martin // March 8, 2012 at 8:19 am

        Hi Marmi, I love you. Just wanted to point out that we have to not over do the common ground thing. I recently read from Bobby Rio that having lengthly conversations based on common ground will put you in the friend zone.

        • Marni // March 8, 2012 at 1:56 pm

          Totally agree with that. Once you get into a me too, me too, me too cycle it becomes girlfriendy. The thing is not to always aim for common ground it’s to aim for sharing and taking the leadership in conversation no matter what topic is discussed.

          Thanks for pointing that out!

        • Marni Wing Girl // March 14, 2012 at 4:10 am

          Hey Martin

          I agree to an extent but I think when guys speak to girls it’s not so much what you talk about, but how you talk about it that affects whether or not you’re in the friend zone. So don’t be too empathetic; instead be a leader, express an opinion and stay away from that friend zone

          Marni ๐Ÿ™‚

  8. widower // January 25, 2012 at 4:59 pm

    How do u find common groung/intrests without giveing youre self away? People are people.

  9. Parrot Eyes // February 28, 2012 at 7:42 pm

    Marni, your article on ยจWhat Do Women Want To Talk About?ยจ is solid gold. Platinum, really. Maybe even rhodium… You disassembled a complicated concept and reassembled it into a simple algebraic formula that any AFC/regular guy can understand and put into practice immediately. It`s genius, really. I have read countless articles by PUA`s over the past 3 years and have seen nothing come close to it`s elegant simplicity. Awesome job, girl.
    Now, just so you don`t think I`m a kiss-ass, I think your byline: ยจThe last female friend you`ll ever needยจ totally sucks. It doesn`t send the right message at all, not to me anyway. Honestly, I respect what you offer, but you really don`t fit into the friend category. You`re more like a person trainer for success with women. And I think guys will resonate much better to that image of you.

    • Marni Wing Girl // March 6, 2012 at 2:50 am

      Hi Parrot Eyes

      appreciate the honest feedback- and I’m really glad you enjoyed the article

      Marni ๐Ÿ™‚

  10. Ian // March 10, 2012 at 9:52 pm


    You talk about ‘taking the leadership’ in conversation, how does one do this?

    One on one, I feel pretty comfortable and even commanding (in a non-blowhard, relaxed confident way), at times. But in small groups, I often find myself feeling needy and trying to jump in to the conversation to feel included.

    Anyways, thanks for this post, I really appreciate your perspective!

    • Marni // March 11, 2012 at 10:14 am

      Try this. Next time you are in conversation. Add on to what they are talking about (sharing to connect) then lead into something else either another topic or another extension of the same conversation but with your addition. This is leading. Leading does not mean dominating. It just differentiates the followers who simply nod their heads and agree with whatever is being said to them. If you want more information on leadership and how to talk to woman and command authority email me directly marni@winggirlmethod.com

  11. Neo // April 2, 2012 at 3:22 am

    A conversation is all about presence in the set. The reason we wanna be “not pretend to be” in the conversation as a whole man and by whole man I mean a guy who has a pretty good insight into the female world. No need to be assy or arrogant to show her you’re strong, there are thousand ways to show your confidence other than being a jerk. If you are good at conversations, and I mean you come as a guy who has some Love and passion for things, that you actually do those things cause you love them, they make you feel something, they transport you elsewhere, and not cause you’ve got nothing else to do!

    If we can excute a woman and make her comfortable with us in the conversation, we really need not much to be the one who she’d like to be with! Last night I had this 28 old girl with me and as we were making out she said something that literally opened up a world of possibilities. As we agreed to meet up, she said “I don’t want to have sex with you.” so this being our second meet, I really didn’t worry about that. Sex? I can have it with Lois, or Cassy later on if I wanted to, but to cut a long story short, we started conversing and then, as I laid the conversation in very SUBTLE way, she was going along with it, even though I could swap this girl is a boy in a girl’s body (attitude wise) ๐Ÿ™‚

    Later on at night at around 3 o’clock and 3 orgasms later, she said: “do you know why am here with you?” I said: “I do” she said: “That’s exactly why. You lead without being bossy, you manage to transport me through a world of different things by NOT dragging me into a conversation by but making me part of it. You come up with the topic, then throw it in my court, and suddenly find myself owning the topic. Then you make it interesting, and it becomes interesting and I became interested further in you.” then she said: “After all, you are not talk only!”

    I’ve always had a good success ratio with girls cause I use this formula: Smile+interesting topic+subtle leadership+acknowledge femininity+flirty comments and kino= Female friends and lovers Abundance. Many girls love reading my Field Reports, and so far I haven’t fallen off with any of them. When I meet them they’ll always ask: “Any new chick?” and I always say: “yeah!” then in a way or another they say: “It’s your mouth that hooks us to you!” oh and by mouth they mean Conversation.

    Marni, you are doing a great job.. Now, here’s the best of it all, the stuff you mention and recommend is awesome, anyone who says different is simply wrong! For lack of better word!

    Keep doing what your doing and am us some day am going to acquire your programs for two reasons, one is to invest in you and by that I mean support your work cause in a way or another, natural or not, your tips are helping me me get quicker to where I aim to, and secondly cause am curious to check what I know with what you offer. I’ve had few of those ‘Oh, I see! That’s why it works!’ moments.

    You will see more of me in these forums.

    Neo (real name)
    London – UK.

    • Marni Wing Girl // April 4, 2012 at 2:52 am

      Hey Neo

      I’m glad to hear that you enjoy reading my posts and that you’re getting something from them: and I couldn’t agree more with your first point, being present in the conversation is the key!

      Being in that moment, really connecting with her, being honest, leading are all great ways to have more women in your life.

      Marni ๐Ÿ™‚

  12. Neo // April 2, 2012 at 3:24 am

    Didn’t mean execute but INCLUDE – bloody speller lol

  13. Neo // April 2, 2012 at 3:26 am

    Swap = swear

  14. Andy // April 23, 2012 at 8:57 am

    I have experience with women, but in terms of relationships nothing more than 4 months, which was fine by me until I actually meet women that I genuinely like. I often don’t move forward as I should, as I’ll be honest-I’m scared that I might screw things up and when your dating someone that you’ve known and liked for a while it can be a bit of a daunting prospect to lay your cards on the table. It’s different when it’s just a quick shag and you don’t really know each other, but although I want intimacy I’m a little daunted by it. I’m not so sure that this kind of honesty would cause attraction! Any thoughts?

    • Marni Wing Girl // April 25, 2012 at 3:22 am

      Maybe not phrased exactly like that! But it is always better to be open about how you’re feeling than become anxious and let this affect your dating process.

      Good luck in the future ๐Ÿ™‚

  15. gelton tradon // May 22, 2012 at 4:55 pm

    Can you give me some advice on how to get my wife back. I see stuff on dating and getting your “girlfriend” back but there is not much stuff on the internet about getting your wife back…do you have a course on this or can you give me a recommendation for a course. I really need help here.

    • Marni Wing Girl // May 29, 2012 at 5:31 am

      Hey Gelton

      I understand how tough that must be: I think as your dilemma is a very personal one it’s best to send me an email https://www.winggirlmethod.com/contact/ and we can talk through things further

      Marni ๐Ÿ™‚

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