This is going to be a quick one because:
1. I’m about to get in my car and go on a 6 hour road trip for the holiday weekend (don’t rob my house please)
2. The response to this topic is simple and clear.
Here are my thoughts on how to handle it when a girl you like, has a boyfriend.
When a girl you like has a boyfriend, it’s a waste of your time to put all your attention on her, in the hopes that she will leave her boyfriend for you.
Sorry but it just is.
Most likely what will happen is she’ll continue to continue complaining about her boyfriend TO YOU for months…. AND THEN when dumps the dumb, dumb she’ll end up dating someone else that is NOT YOU.
I wouldn’t waste my time trying to convince someone that is taken to be with me. I just wouldn’t.
BUT I would show them the benefit of me, while focusing elsewhere at the same time.
Let me put it this way. I wouldn’t fight to get a job that someone already has. BUT I’d continue to show the boss that there is potential in me while I explore other options.
In other words, I would suggest to simply be awesome around her. Show her the fun, flirty, outgoing guy that she COULD be with. While also focusing on other women.
That way you won’t get too locked up on this one girl and miss out an awesome opportunities with other women.
PLUS if you start talking about the other women in your life it may spark something in her. She may see your value and realize that it’s now or never with you and then end her relationship.
NOTE: There is a 15% chance of this happening. BUT this “course of action” is the only way to change things around.
BTW – If you have any suggestions for interesting, entertaining podcasts (besides the Ask Women Podcast obviously) please press reply and tell me. I have 12 hours in the car over the next few days that need to be filled.
Have a great holiday weekend!