Want to know 3 easy ways to Start Conversations With Women?
3 Great Tips
Seek Common Ground
Discussing how you're connected to the event or the host is an easy way to make someone you've never met open up and feel comfortable around you.
Marni Comment: I really like this one. It is an easy way to start conversation and get to know another person. From there you can relax and get more comfortable with each other.
Pay A Compliment
If, for example, a woman you've been introduced to is wearing a bracelet you admire, tell her you like it – and WHY (the WHY is the important part). This shows that you're genuinely interested. Follow up with “Where did you get it?” or “What is it made of?” to keep the conversation going.
Marni Comment: One little note is to not get stuck on this topic of her bracelet. Be able to use this as an introduction and then transition into something else. Don't get stuck in your compliment.
Ask Specific Questions
One of the best conversation starters is “What keeps you busy outside work?” Inquiring about someone's career can dead-end, especially if the person has a boring job. But asking about personal interests will get them talking and will reveal a lot about them.
Marni Comment: This one is my favorite ways to get to know someone. It is where connections and common ground can be found. While asking this question take the time to think about whether or not you want to get to know this woman better based on her interests.
I would print out this list and look it over before going out to a social event. If you have this material on quick recall you will be able to relax because you know that you will always have something to say.
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