How To Meet Women While Traveling Alone


Give me a little advice. I have a hard time meeting women as my job is on the road.  Which means, I’m traveling all the time and living in hotels. My question is about how to meet women while traveling alone?

Jason, 34 Chicago



Traveling for work can be a bitch on your social life. It requires extra effort and possibly some risk taking on  your part. BUT if you are up for it, and I hope you are, I have 5 Steps on How To Meet Women while traveling alone below:

Step 1: Before going to any city, do your research. Choose the best hotel location for going out and being social. You don’t want to be stuck out in the boonies if you plan to be social and meet women while traveling for work.

TIP: Most cities have websites set up to tell you what’s going on socially for restaurants, hotels, nightlife etc..  Find one of these sites and select 3 things you would want to do while in that city.

Step 2: Go to the lobby or hotel bar and scout for others flying solo, male or female, doesn’t matter. You are just looking for a partner to go out with at this point. Tell them you guys are going to go out for a fun night and give them 1 or all of the options you had selected. Trust me, if a person is at a hotel by themselves, 8 out of 10 times they will be up for some sort of interaction and social outing.

Step 3: Go to the social location.

Note: If you aren’t into clubs, DON”T GO TO CLUBS. But if you are go. I usually suggest a local bar. They are typically busy and filled with people who are up for new experiences.

Step 4: Start interacting with others. If you have a hard time doing this you can introduce some sort of game between you and your new friend. For example: Guess her name. It’s a game where you both guess which half of the alphabet the first letter of her name falls into. If you are right, you get a beer and vice versa. This game is meant to get you in a fun mood and gives you a reason to approach. When you approach with a “reason” you will appear more confident and more attractive to women. Plus it makes the approach a hell of a lot easier.

Step 5: Start pulling others into your game. You are up for a fun night so make it memorable.  Be a leader and gain the attraction of others in the bar.

If you follow these 5 steps on how to meet women while traveling alone, I guarantee you business trips will no longer feel so depressing and lonely.

Whether or not you meet a woman, you will enjoy your night. Win, win in my eyes.


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  • Tad


    i love this topic. i’ve met so many amazing people in my travels.

    other options:

    1) stay in hostels. they’re full of young people who love to party. there are always outings happening, they’re usually guaranteed to be central in town and free wi-fi for sure. you can get a solo room if you like as well.

    2) when flying or taking a bus or train. show up to the station a little early so you can meet people and strike up conversations BEFORE boarding. I’ve ended up making out with a few women on buses and trains simply by meeting them before and saying something like, ‘okay. you’re too much fun. we should sit together on the bus.’ and then people re-adjust for us.

    3) flirting with servers. i’ve gone on a few dates with beautiful servers by just saying something like, ‘you are so stunning. i’m charmed with you. what are you doing after work? i’m only in town for three days and there’s nothing i want more than to spend time with you.’ several late night traipses i’ll never forget.

    4) if you have an online dating profile, why not switch it to that city a week or two before you go and do a bit of surveying. on the top you might say something like, ‘i don’t live in toronto but thought i’d see if i could connect with some good people on here before i come out. you never know who you might meet :-)’

    5) ask for directions. usually the whole, ‘do you know the nearest starbucks?’ is bullshit and a contrived conversation starter. but in this case it’s real! instead of relying on your iphone – make cute girls your tour guides. try walking up, during the day, and saying, ‘sorry, this is kind of random, but i saw you and i had to say hi – you’re too cute. i know i’d kick myself all week if i didn’t say hi. my name is _______’. go direct. be forthright about your intentions. and see how long you can keep the conversation going before asking for directions – but, at any point there’s a lull or you feel lost you can say, ‘oh right! the other reason i wanted to approach you was because I’m trying to find ______’ and this can turn into fun banter like, ‘amazing. you’re hired. you’ll be my new tour guide.’ and then quickly fire her for a ridiculous reason. good fun.

    travel is where i’ve met many of the women i’ve been with. it’s wrong to think that women wouldn’t want to be with someone flying through town – for some women the promise of a fling with low possibility or need for commitment is exactly what they want.

    • Great add ons tad!!! Love it and totally agree.

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  • John rogers

    Great article. I personally think its really easy to meet women while traveling, because im in such a positive mood. I think that the easiest way to meet women is by hanging out with other travelers. has a lot of good advice on the topic. Also couchsurfing is another good site for meeting people while you are out there.

  • I think it’s hilarious that traveling content aimed towards men is all about meeting and socializing while you’re out… and content targeting women scares them into “being safe” and “not talking to strangers”!

    I personally believe you have a massive social advantage when you travel because everything is new! You’re naturally more interesting and there are next-to-no consequences!