How can you stop settling for women you're not that attracted to? And why is it so hard to date the women you REALLY want to be with? Here are the top 3 reasons you're not dating with the woman you truly desire:
There’s a complaint I hear from men ALL the time.
“I do well with the women I’m not really attracted to… but I never get the ones that I really want.”
Can you relate?
If so, this email is for you.
Because I don’t want you to waste your time settling for less than what it is you truly desire…
Both with women and with life in general.
Not only is it not fair on you, it’s not fair on the woman you’re with.
We don’t want to be with a guy who’s only kinda sorta into us.
We want a man who looks at us like we’re the sexiest, most desirable woman in the world to him.
So if you’re only pursuing the women you think you can get… instead of the ones who truly get you excited, you’re hurting everyone involved.
Now, the first step in going after the women you want…
Is understanding why you’re settling for the women who you don’t want.
And from my experience, there are typically 3 reasons why this usually happens.
#1 Your Ego Is Getting In The Way
Nobody likes to be rejected.
And sometimes it might feel like you have a better chance of success with the average-looking girl than the super hot one.
This also becomes an issue for a lot of guys who get into the pickup artist community.
They build their identity around being this guy who’s great with women, and they don’t want to do anything to threaten that image.
So their ego tries to protect itself by preventing them from taking risks that may damage it.
Guys in this category have the belief that they’re not worthy of the women they really want.
Whether it’s because of their looks, their status in life, or some other issue holding them back…
They don’t feel like the highest quality women would ever be sexually interested in them.
And the truth is, they’re right.
But not for the reasons they think.
It’s actually their deep insecurity and lack of confidence that turns those women off… resulting in a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Yet because they feel they are worthy of some of the less attractive women, they behave in a more attractive way around them and end up dating them.
#3 You Act Too Passive
This is where most guys are who either don’t know how to approach women, or are too scared to take action.
So instead of playing the masculine role and initiating the conversation…
They sit back and wait for something to fall into their lap.
It could be getting introduced to a woman by a mutual friend, or being in a situation where a woman approaches him first.
This is why a lot of guys end up with a woman from their work or their social circle.
It’s the result of convenience and happenstance more than having the skill to go out and get the woman they really want.
I would say at least 90% of the men I’ve coached live and online have been in a similar situation.
And it’s one of the first things I work on fixing for them.
Because if you don’t get this handled, you’ll never be completely satisfied with your dating and sex life. It’ll feel like something’s missing, like you’re not reaching your full potential.
Do you really want to go through life wondering “what if” all the time?
Instead of the Plain Jane who looked like she’d be happy for any guy to talk to her?
Believe me, life’s too short to settle for less than what you want.
So if you’d like to elevate yourself into the upper echelon of men…
The 1% who have no fear in approaching and pursuing the highest quality women…
Then you need to get your hands on The Approach Blueprint pronto.
This is THE guide on how to approach women in any and every situation…
Written by a woman who has been approached more than 32 000 times!
And the lessons from all of those approaches are now yours for the taking, when you click right here.