OK guys here is his email, and my comments follow…
Hi Marni,
I enjoyed your newsletter and it got me thinking so I thought I'd reply. I agree that outer game is important to a certain extent as it is the image that we project to the world yet a lot of times guys over do it and they end up portraying a false image of themselves… I'm from the old school type of game; I know that when it comes to intercourse and mating, women do the choosing just like with other species. Men choose whether to invest their wealth in their family and kids (commit) and women choose whom to mate with.
Therefore I do not believe in trying to impress, prove or explain myself, tap dance for a woman that is simply not interested in me. To a certain extent one can manipulate and influence the outcome but at one point the truth will rise and the whole scheme will fall apart like a deck of cards. I believe in being straightforward and upfront with women when it comes to my desires, intentions and interests and focus on the process and let the results take care of themselves.
I believe that what women want is a guy who already has other women, and which guys have other women? Guys that have a strong sense of self and know who they are and have conquered their ego, thoughts and emotions. They are honest with themselves and others and they have a lot of empathy (instead of sympathy) for others and are able understand where ppl come from and listen to their viewpoint without letting that affect them and who they are.
Marni's comments:
I have to congratulate N.A's email as it shows that he has really taken the time to observe and understand women. I just want to point out 1 comment that may give you the wrong idea about women.
N.A. made the statement that “Women want to be with a guy who already has women”. I just want to be clear that you understand that taken men are not the ONLY men women want. But yes I agree that this is definitely a cause for attraction for many reasons.
A taken man or men who are with women translate into several things for a woman including: Able to commit, ability to be with a woman, possibly powerful in his own right, can provide security and so much more.
The important part of N.A's statement that I wanted you to pay attention to was the information that came after about the kind of man that women want. They want a man with a strong sense of self and empathy for others.
ARE YOU THAT MAN?
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And just a quick side note…
This is why women are attracted to jerks.
The reason women are attracted to jerks is because jerk behavior can sometimes be confused with a strong sense of self.
A man who is a jerk, on the outside appears to be completely settled on who he is and is proud. A turn on for women. By the time a woman realizes she is with a jerk she is already to deep into the relationship.
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